Its been Six months & we haven't done it YET??

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I been going out with my current bf for more than six months now.. and we haven't been intimate yet.. Reason i wasn't ready then. For a change i want be in a realtionship with a man who loves me for the person iam.. he promised to wait until i was ready.just a back round on our relationship

2 days ago

After having few drinks at a friends party. My bf friend said few things to me that left me confused.

He said i love you babe will u marry me.. then he said i want us to have a family... He said i will look after you and and make u proud. He then said i can't believe you love me babe... he then said i love u so much i sometime wanna CRY.

I truly love him but he gets a bit emotionally when he has few drinks.. Do u think i should believe any of the above??

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

well, if this is a man you're considering marrying after hearing that, then communication is very important. You need to ask him when he is sober about what he said, and ask him to explain it. Then sit back and listen without interrupting and let him explain it. Don't offer any criticism or advice, or anything else. Just listen. Let him talk. 

You'll know more after that. Good luck!

Miss Blonde · Answer

wait for marriage for sex. thats not to play around with. this guy wouldnt say these things of he didnt mean it. it had to come from somewhere. talk to him when you two arent drinking and see how he really feels about you. if he confirms that he loves you, should you have any doubts? but sry to bust your bubble, but he was probably just caught up in the moment asking you to marry him. im sure he will take care of you, but talk to him when he's not intoxicated!! lol

Anonymous · Answer

Hmm.. When guys drink they react in different ways. Your bf odvously gets all soppy etc.. There is probally some truth in what he says. But maybe you should talk to him about the things he says when he is sobre.
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Anonymous · Answer

Repeat after me....

"I will not believe anything anyone says when they are drinking"

If you follow that advice TO THE LETTER, you will never have any problems in life...

Heather C · Answer

ROFLMAO, actually you ability to lie is not as sharp when your drunk as when your sober.  He's more likely to bleed his feelings all over the place and become and emotional slob when drunk.  On the upside atleast he's not an abusive jack*ss when intoxicated.  

I think you should believe him.

John · Answer

Drunk confessions ........ 50 / 50 ...... believing all of it ... priceless !

Communication .... while being sober ..... base what comes next on that ....... 

Yes...different folks have different feelings, but .... never buy a car unless you test drive it, never buy shoes until you have tried them on .........

Good Luck

hal · Answer

get more time to know him well then if you believe without seeking answer you must marry him if you want somebody advice then don't marry him

Anonymous · Answer

he equates not having sex with "we will have sex on our wedding night". PERHAPS!

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