love, in love, or crush?

You might be attracted to something you know you can't have. Think about it, since we were all kids when we are told we can't have something seems like a switch is flipped inside us that makes us want it even more. I am sure your friend is a pretty girl but I think you are intrigued by the thought of having something that you are not suppose to.

Be really careful because you might end up losing your friend and your girl friend, sit down and have a talk with the girl you have this crush on, get it out in the open and off your chest and move on. If she is a good friend you girls should have no problem talking about it.

All of us have fantasize about certain things in our life at one point or another, but remember what is important...

Good luck and hope things work out.

I don't think that any of us can tell you if it's love or a crush, only you can find that out. But what I can tell you is that if your friend is straight, there really isn't much you can do, as bad as we all hate hearing it. You can't just change a person, and even if you did, how would you feel knowing that she was just going through a phase where she thought she liked the same sex but turned out straight? It would be hurtful. What I would suggest you do is just try to view her as only a friend. Besides, like you said, you have a girlfriend, so maybe you should focus more on her. Perhaps you're spending more time thinking about your friend than you are your girlfriend, and that could lead to some pretty bad results.

So be with your girlfriend, and try to remember that you can't change a person and do your best to accept her (your friend) decisions.

hmm. well do you know whether she ever touches you?

Does she ever like to be alone with you? just you two-No one else?

i think its a crush, because i recently got one on this girl.

Do you make alot of eye contact, and stare deeply into her eyes?

Obsession is always part of a crush, people change, for all you know she could like you because she is always spending time with you?

Are you her best friend, this means she really cares for you, maybe like you the same way because by the sounds of things, you havent told us that she pushes you away, she could like you touching her.

I hope this helps

charl xxx

I don't think your in love, that's just pure crush . end of the story , just make sure your tell your self that its a crush, and soon enough you will realize that this what it truly was . the same situation happened to me before.

you don't wanna end up loosing both your girlfriend , and best friend at the same time.

i have to same problem with my best friend we've actually had a sexual encouter but after that we stopped talking cause she's scared of people finding out but after the sexual encouter we had she's on my mind 24/7 i appreciate and adore everything about her now but it sucks cause she keeps pushing me away so were kinda in the same boat here

You should tell her the truth about how you feel. If she's really your best friend, she will understand. She may feel the same way.. but if she doesn't, at least she'll know how you feel.

all that you can really do is let your best friend know how you truly feel about her. its a big risk taker because a lot of different outcomes can come out of it but i think its the best.

we're both in a same suitation

tell her the truth ya know but don't freak if she started to ignore you

your in love, go and find someone else, she'll want you then, some things never change

IT"S NOT LOVE

JUST A CRUSH

Get over it!!!