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My best friend of 15 years and I have been fighting alot lately.?
We have been through alot and have always made up. But this time I am angry and cant get over it. I am trying but because i am so hurt, can seem to forget it. It started aroung august when I started to feel sick. I was having joint pain everywhere and was so fatique. I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid arthritis.
Well, I did not travel from NJ to Florida to see my godson for his birthday because I was so uncomfortable. Obsiously she was upset about it. Then she told me she will be coming to visit family for thansgiving in NY. I was a bit hesistate about how much time I would have to spend with her and the family because I am in graduate school for Nurse Anesthesia. At this point I am not working because physically I just cant. We'll on day I call her after getting out of the hospital because I reacted to the arthritis medication... menigititis and liver problems developed. When I called her, she tells me i need to detox from medications i take, so i can start having children
Then tells me about an Oprah show about the extremes people go through to have children. I told her I am 29yrs old and I am not marriaged nor ready because of my health problems. Also tells me why I cant be happy being a Nurse practitioner and I have done it to my self going back to school. I then tell her I will have children when i am ready and will have someone to help me incase the Rheumatoid arthritis acts up. Persists by telling me that I do not know what is like to be a mother and not be able to hold your child and have someone else take care of the child.
I felt instantly depressed. Just out of the hospital with 104 fever and worst headache of my life and have to think about being a bad mother.
About two weeks after I told her what up set me and she appolozied but I feel things have changed. I Cant get over it.
She came over the weekend and I did not see her because I was busy studing for an exam for school and she is upset again. Should I get over it? I'm hurt.
2 Answers
- ceegtLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Fifteen years is a very long time to be friends. You have a choice. You can choose to be hurt and angry and hold on to that, or you can forgive your friend and hold on to your friendship. What's more important to you? Your choice.
- 1 decade ago
Sometimes in life people just go their separate ways. 15 years a really long time to be friends...and if I was in your situation I would be upset too. If she was that good of a friend she should have never said that. But she did apologize. You can forgive but it is hard to forget.
And the whole you need to have kids thing. I swear everyone I talk to that has kids always tells me I should have start having kids and I am only 22!
So I wouldn't throw a friendship away but things maybe different just have to ride it out.
