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Dua to help heal when someone has hurt you?

Recently, I was in a relationship and the guy lied and deceived me. He really broke my heart.

I need duas that will help me heal. I have been having crying spells and I have so much anger in my heart.

I also want a aya or a dua that I can read that will make him regret and feel the same pain that he has inflicted on.

I know as muslims we should forgive those who hurt us, but honestly I will not feel better until I know he has felt the same pain he tried to put me through. For every tear that I have shed over this situation, I want him to feel it ten times over and come back and ask for my forgiveness.

Update:

I am human so naturally I will hurt and in this case want him to be hurt too. But reading these answers did make me want to just forgive and let God handle the situation.

Anyone have any duas that will help you forgive someone.

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  • senn
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    well for this what has happened is destiny u cant change it ......we need to accept all the facts its a fact that u have been betrayed be courageous and accept it..let it not ruin you....with time everything will be fine........yes u must be in vent n anger for sure...just leave it to god....he knows the truth n all need to pay for their deeds one final day...he too will be questioned on this....u don't spoil Ur life or hurt yourself by prolonging this......let this be ur past and move onn u have many more delicacies in life to foresee.....its always said to forget n forgive...do it!

    leave rest on God..never ever think or pray evil for anyone not even for Ur enemies......so even if anyone hurts you don't curse them....leave it all to GOD.....its very true that GOD Sees The Truth But Waits!

  • 1 decade ago

    Time dear ..you just need time

    Desire for revenge can never be a medicine really.Anger is like fire, if it gets fuel it will increase if it doesnt it will burn its victim more.

    Dua and time will help you to heal all your wounds so pray , pray as much as you can but dua will not get you revenge.It will free you from anger and desire for revenge.It will make you your free and happy and pure and innocent self again.No malice , betrayal, hurt and anger will trouble you ;your dua will help so much.Dua will give you great strength to forgive and move on. Dua will help you have a better present and future.It can also help you change your destiny for a better furture.Perhaps you are a muslim.We Hindus believe in karma. If today one is decieved its probably for some reason like karma of the past life and today if someone decieves and hurts tommorrow he will be paid back in the same coin.Whether or not the wrong and the wronged want the nature has its way of making each pay for all good and bad that is done

    With or without dua, justice is always there in Allah's rule.Have faith in him and his will.

    My prayers with you that you recover from the heartbreak and bounce back to your real self with much more strength, wisdom and life

  • 6 years ago

    There is no particular dua. But you can sure ask your Lord to punish he who hurt you. If you are oppressed, your dua will work.

    Now coming to time, and patience: its easy for others to say it. Only those who go through it knows how it feels.

    Revenge will not just happen. You need to plot revenge.

    1. First step to revenge is transform yourself to be the object he wants

    2. Second step is to make sure he wants you back

    3. Third step is to make sure you dont give a **** this time

    4.Only at fourth step comes your patience, when you will just wait and see karma take action

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    dua heal hurt

  • Curtis
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    As a Christian we have no choice but to forgive. When you realize that Jesus Christ died so that you could be saved no matter what they have done to you you will want to forgive. With out forgiveness you will only become bitter and you will cause yourself more pain than he did. I have experienced much in the way of having to forgive since it has been so much a part of my life. Know that even though you forgive when you are a Christian that Vengeance belongs only to the Lord God. From experience I have to say He is very able to make those who persecute his followers regret their actions if not in this life then in the next. God is a God of Love but He is also a God of Justice and He deals with those who plot evil against me with out me even knowing who they are. This allows me not to be bitter or to do evil as others do but to live my life walking the path God intends for me with no regrets.

  • 1 decade ago

    You just can say:(In Arabic of course) these two verses from

    Quran Surah 9:Verses128-129 (and repeat verse "129" 7 times)

    That would make you feel re leafed and your sorrow would go away and if he really hurt you God would take revenge for you, so just forget about him.

  • geni
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You are only hurting yourself by having that attitude. Allow time to pass.

  • 1 decade ago

    =( im sorry to hear your situation. ill pray. but yes, you should forgive him. i know it is hard and it will hurt, but God tells you to forgive for a reason. it will heal your heart better to forgive him that to hurt him. if you try to seek vengence and make him hurt too, you are only helping the devil to hurt more people. Trust in God and obey his laws. it WILL hurt, but after its all said and done, you will come out better by forgiving him. well...cheer up! =D ill pray!

    Source(s): Holy Bible
  • 1 decade ago

    justice does not heal. forgiveness is. still hurt meant not yet forgive. healing being when you forgive

  • 8 years ago

    Read Ya Montaqimo it is one of allahs names for revenge...read it on tasbih and allah will get hime to feel your pain..Ijust been through the same thing

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