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I need serious advice about a guy!!?

Me and this guy went out about a year ago for probably a week or so, but then it didn't work out, because the're was a rumor about him with another girl... now he's been begging since may for me to go back out with him... I do kind of like him, but i don't know whether or not to give him another chance

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Talk too him fisrt, she if he has changed in any way honey....if hes the same ol dude, let it go, but if he talking about something different this time around, at least consider getting back with him, or let em beg a lil (LOL).....I know how you feel, But those rumors might have just been rumors you never kno.....

  • 1 decade ago

    I think the first thing that needs to be figure out is, "the rumor" was it true or not?

    !. If it is true do you really want to give a guy a second chance who took for granted the first chance you gave him by see another woman while with you?

    2. If the rumor was not true then I do not see the harm in giving him a second chance. Sometimes we make hastily decisions when we are hurt or feel we are about to be hurt even with a relationship as short as a week.

    I hope I was a bit of help on this matter.

  • 1 decade ago

    try giving him a second chance and if it doesnt work then break up with him but i think that rumor was going around because some girl liked him and they knew they couldnt have him so they thought u would break up with him and what do u know it worked i really hope that realationship works out this time good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Give him a chance. It was just a rumor, after all. You can't believe everything you hear. Ask him if there is anything going on with him and this girl, and if he is honest and you trust him, take him back.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Give it a shot. What do you really know about anyone after a week?

    Was it just a rumor? Or was there someone else? Can't hurt to try it again.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would do it!! Even if he WAS going out with another girl then he knows now not to make that same mistake again. And plus, rumors aren't usually true. Well, hope this helps!! Good luck!! ♥♥ ^_^

  • prebor
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    nicely seems such as you have a woman who can not make up her recommendations and could not provide you a proof thats sounds honest. because of the fact i don't think of you rather beleive something she informed you approximately him i think of something take place in the different case you wouldnt have any doubts you sound like a great guy and seems such as you have a woman who's taking great thing on the subject of the convenience zone you have positioned her in and what you are going to be able to desire to do is shake it up slightly. She took that injury because of the fact she began to have emotions for him and he or she did not inform you that in keeping with possibility because of the fact she needed to maintain your courting or she could not. So whilst she tells you not something occurred thats bullshit. What you are going to be able to desire to do is locate out how plenty she loves you and injury up along with her pondering the reality which you do not believe her. And if she loves you rather loves you she will have the capacity to return sparkling after jointly as in an attempt to get you back if she lied yet whilst she would not come when you then you offered your answer she cheated on you and don't care approximately you anymore. appears like she isn't being common and thats not good in any courting. Like I pronounced previously you sound like a great guy and you do not deserve a women who isn't common with you.

  • sunny
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    give him a try. like you said in your own words, it was a rumor. so wait it out. if you really want to know, ask him straight up and see what the deal is

  • MiMi
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Give it a try. My now husband and I dated for about six weeks and then we broke up. We both went out with other people and when we both got dumped, we got back together. We lived together for about a year and then I asked him to marry me. You never know what's gonna happen!

  • 1 decade ago

    If you like him give him a chance. Be clear in your mind about what you want for the future for yourself. If you think it is necessary empasise to him how important his commitment is to you. All the best.

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