bestfriend/boyfriend trouble?

depends how long you guys been friends really and you and your boyfriend been going out don't have a threesome stupidest thing said if you try to make it work with her and she still pulls away probably isn't a good friend like hang out with her at the movies more often or w/e you do

Lol, I'm not laughing at you I'm laughing at your problem. I know exactly what your going through. All my friends felt the same way about my ex. To tell you the truth, it could be for a couple of reasons. One, could be that she is jealous. Either your not spending as much time with her, or she likes him. Two, It could be that she doesn't think he's good enough for you. Either she thinks he might be ugly or just not treat you right. Either way you need to find out why she doesn't like him. I know the saying "boyfriends will come and go but girlfriends will always stay" that is also not very true. Think about how many really good friends you might have lost. If you like this guy a lot and he treats you right and you know you will be with him for a long time. He might be worth it you know?

well i had the same problem my best friend didnt like my boyfriend and my boyfriend didnt like my best friend. i didnt want to choose sides b/c i loved them both so i tried explaining to my best friend how much my boyfriend meant to me and she just didnt understand. now i never hangout w/ her anymore i see her in school but things arent the same we're not the best friends we use to be. ur friend should understand and give ur boyfriend another chance if she was a true friend she'd except ur boyfriend and would get mad at u. the only thing u can do is talk to her and hope she understands and try making some time for "girl time". good luck!

You should leave the country alone, flee to Mexico, start a new life, get a new boyfriend named Jesus, and a new best friend that likes Jesus. Then you should enjoy a nice spicy taco at the nearest market. Don't use any hot sauce though, because it has been proven that hot sauce being squirted into your boyfriend's eye is the number one cause a break-up.

1st- does she have a good reason for not liking him or is it a jealousy thing? If it's a jealousy thing, she needs to get over it. As long as he treats you with dignity and respect, along with your friends and family, and other people, she has an issue. Or perhaps she she trying to tell you something "without telling you (bcuz she doesn't want to b the one to say anything and hurt you" and he really isn't treating you with respect. You need to find out more info from her and perhaps him. Good luck.

I think you should talk to your bestfriend because i remember my bestfriend going out with this guy i don't like, and i felt so lonely when she went out with that guy because i couldn't trust him. But i knew that she likes him but then she told me how she still treats me as her bestfriend and i thought that i should accept the reality that she's going out with the guy that i hate. I hope this will help you. Good Luck!

Your friend might be jealous of your boyfriend and his time spent with you. Remember the more time spent with him is less time spent with her. As friends we also tend to think no one is good enough for our friends. There are so many things that could be creating animosity towards your boyfriend.

I would explain to her that you really care for him and don't want this to cause any problems with either relationship. Make sure you spend equal amounts of time with both and whatever you do never flake on your friend to spend time with him. That'll kill it for sure!

Good luck. :)

Get the two together and try to work things out. If not maybe shes not really a true friend. Maybe you need to move on

hmmm well. why doesn't she like him...did you ask her? if not ask, and go from there. There MUST be a reason. If there isn't, then its hard. Because it's true...it's your decision who you go out with, and you shouldn't have somebody influence what ure decision is. Its ure feelings. and if she leaves you because of this, she wasn't a friend to begin with. No friend should do that. but seriously, its true. Friends are more important than guys.

i went through the same exact thing except i was the friend who didnt like the boyfriend (which they eventually broke up). but i think you should see y ur friend doesnt like him and try to work it out. maybe she feels like u care about ur boyfriend more than her or maybe hes a jerk. and then talk to ur boyfriend about it. and if ur friend still hates ur boyfriend u can just date him secretly.