IF U R 30 PLUS PLZ ANSWER My QUESTION?

I don't think he knows how to control the feelings he has for you or how to interpret them. He sounds a bit childish in his approach to his feelings.

I had a friend who's Bfr said the same thing to her and that he had to end the relationship because he loved her too much!!!!! Does this sound familiar.

Be careful with this one. You haven't said how long you have been in the relationship but emotions run high the first year or so. Remember that attraction is a chemical reaction. I think he has hormone overdrive.

I'm sure he loves you. He might need to talk his feelings over with some other person .. like an other male friend. ( one who is married ) .

Its a lovely feeling to be so in love. But enjoy it , let it wash over you and not consume you.

Good luck

After reading your question I am lead to believe that you may just be imagining it. Sometimes when we feel our own insecurity it is often seen by us as someone close to us to being insecure.

Are you sure you are ready to get married? You say only positive things about him but you repeatedly talk about why he feels a certain way, or looks a certain way. And then you end by saying that you are not sure why you feel the way you do and you're just confused.

Marriage is a serious commitment, no matter how old each of you are. It is not meant to be entered into lightly. Maybe you need to take a deep look inside and see if perhaps it is you that has some doubts. Just my opinion of course.

If you're with it, and he's with it, do it!!!! Marriage is a wonderful union and a great experience. I've been married 20 years and people still ask us if we are newly weds. We've never grown tired of one another and work hard to solve all of our issues together. Just remember, marriage is a lot of work, but so worth it if you vow to stay together.

Good Luck!!!!! Hope to hear wedding bells soon if that is truly what you want!!!!!

You should tell him you are not going to marry him until both of you feel comfortable and ready. I think both of you want this but the question of failure has to arise with the age you are. I think you should go with your gut on this and call for what it is. Sit down and talk about it and if you cant agree put the wedding off for a while. Everyone gets cold feet but you need to make sure that is all it is. Good Luck.

It sounds like you are both not ready. You ever here the phrase that when you find that someone you just know. That is what will happen when you and he are ready. Right about know you both might have the problem of feeling like your time is running out and you might have to settle. I would wait take it slow and just let things develop naturaly. Dont feel like you have to be married soon or else.

Am not sure but from what you wrote, it sounds like you have a lot of things going for you or that maybe he feels like he is the one gaining the most out of the relationship or might be insecure because he might have been cheated on before.

There might be something he is hiding which is why he could feel frightened at times and in return that makes you feel that he is not ready.

Go with your gut: He's not ready. At 36 he should know what he wants and should not be frightened or scared of being in love with you. If he truly loves you he can wait. Until I read your ages I thought he was a teenager. Be careful with this guy.

Thats just it, ur just as confused as he is, not saying it in a bad way. U both are not use to this feeling ur having cuz its that powerful its over coming u, trust me I know how u feel. The look of fright isn't really fright its the look of "omg am I really feeling this way, I have never felt this way b4." Its just amazing in my opinion, I love the feeling of being in love. I'm 31 and this is the first time I have ever felt like this.

I'm 21 years old and my bf is 19 I'm not being boastful but my bf already asked me to marry him and i do have a ring on my finger. maybe your bf is inconsistent and not ready due to his feelings nad emotions. remember that there are a lot of responsibilities to be in a relationship as husband and wife.it is much better that you'll asked him why...its better to be frank than to be dumb..

If he hasn't said anything about not being ready, maybe you are the one who isn't ready and you are just reading into it that he is the one. Regardless of age and time ask yourself if you are ready. Hope all goes well.

Sometimes we feel scared. This might help

*Assure him that getting married in not the end of the world.

* Also, mention that the both of you are equally responsible. and he should not feel that he has to do it by himself.