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How many PPL do this ?????
how many of you have or do go around your parents back to date someone they may dislike or hate? how are you getting away with it, give me advise how i can do the same.
10 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well i guess i don't really have this problem, i don't let my parents control who i can and cannot date. You hav to learn from your mistakes, and as long as ur being safe about it then your parents shouldn't reallt be prying. However, if your parents are over protective, the just tell them when ever your going out that ur with a good friend of yours, and make sure that if your parents contact ur friends, he/she says you just left adn most likely on your way home, and they too should eb able to get a hold of you to keep you updated on whether or not your parents are looking for u.
on another note, your parents can't know where you are 24/7, so there are a million different times you can see this person throughout the day.
Be safe and good luck
- 1 decade ago
There's lots of ways to get around it. But what you don't realize is that your parents are much better judges of character then you are. They have been around and have been your age at one point in they're lives. They have more experience then you do. Of course kids never listen to the parents, then they make mistakes because they think they know more then the parents do.
Of course you will do what you want to do no matter what anyone tells you. We all have, and most of us regret it. I don't know how many times I've personaly said to myself, that I wished I had listened. I wouldn't have had children out of wedlock and I would have been choosier about the men I married and dated. Now after two failed marriages, and failed relationships its too late to go back and do things diffirently. You have the choice of listening to your parents or making your own mistakes and regretting it later. Of course all parents arent perfect either, in fact none of them are perfect, just some are better at it then others. But if you have good parents, listen to them if not then seek counseling from adults not others that have no experience to draw on. If your parents dislike someone or even hate them, they may have a very good reason that you dont see.
After all if you were that smart, you could figure out how to go behind your parents back with out asking.
- terribrookeLv 51 decade ago
If your parents dislike this person, there is a reason. Ask them what the reason is. If you still feel that you need to date this person, then that's your choice. I won't tell you how to get away with going behind your parents' back because I've been there and done that. There's nothing worse than seeing the look of disappointment in your father's eyes when he tells you he knows what you've been doing and he doesn't approve. It's not going to do anything except cause your parents to not trust you!!
- 1 decade ago
Don't do it.
They're going to find out about it eventually. I promise you.
Why would you do such a thing in the first place? If your parents dislike someone, they probably have valid reasons - they know how people are, because they have more experience than you. So if they dislike someone, it's most likely that you will too in the end.
Afterall, it's your parents who are going to support you, not the person you're going out with behind their back. And you don't want to lose or ruin the relationship with your parents.
Trust me.
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- Kayla SLv 41 decade ago
It is really difficult. When I lived at home I was allowed very few date at all. It depends on how sneaky you want to be because the chances of getting caught are pretty high. I had a girl friend where I would go for a sleep over then we would go out on dates from her house. I also pretended to go to a lot of school things but I had to be home pretty early from those so that didn't work too well. There are other things yo can do but they all involve taking chances.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Maybe before you do that you should think about figuring out why your parents dont like the guy...im thinkin they probably have reasons. Be careful, i know its corny, and im a teenager too so i know how annoying it is to hear this but seriously, they just want whats best for you, and this guy could be really bad news.
- 1 decade ago
I know exactly how you feel I have been in this situation and it suxs..... I dated this 21 yr old and my mom didnt like him or his ways. So i would tell my mom that i am going to church and i would skip church and go hang out with my boyfriend.. I know that is kinda bad cause its church but it works... just have your friends cover your back and you should have be able to without getting caught. Or if you go to church you can tell your mom you are going to a friends house that will cover for you and go to that boys house..... But u have to be really carefull.... But i hope my advice helps alittle and good luck....
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I would suggest to honor your parents wishes...remember usually your parents will be around alot longer than this guy will...
- 1 decade ago
i can care less what they think. like they tell me, its ur life n u get to choose who u want in it.....
and yet thats a good idea...... get friends who u kno wont blk mail u to cover 4 u. or family too. :)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Just get your friends to cover for you.