My (ex)friend asked out the guy I like and she knew I liked him....?

Take her out of your life! She's very selfish and doesn't deserve to be your friend. As far as that guy goes, you might have to leave him alone for a couple of weeks.

By the way you described her immediate weirdness when you told her you liked him, it sounds like she was crushing on him too.

Now is when you have to sit down and think about your priorities. First, decide what her motives were. She did it for one of two reasons:

1) She either REALLY, really liked him, and decided she just had to take a leap of faith...or...

2) She did it to hurt you.

Once you decide which one of these two were the reason, how you deal with it is a little easier. If she really likes him and you really like him, your next decision is the big one. You can pick your friend and try to be happy that she is happy, or you can pick your guy, and tell him how you feel.

If she only did it to spite you or hurt you, just cut her off. She is no friend anyhow, and hopefully the guy will notice she is so devious.

Good luck! I know its hard, but the best case scenario is that your friendship is strengthened through this test. :)

Did you do anything to warrant this act from her? maybe revenge for something yo did to her in the past. It sounds odd that she would purposely hurt you like that after you saying she was a friend. I think you should defiantly confront her about this, and find out why she's done what she did. Waiting for something to happen is a long and sometimes disappointing game to play. It can really turn around on you if they get serious with eachother.

That happens to some people. This friend of yours is playing games with you .I think you ask her whyshe asked you that question and then asks him out. talk to her. when they stop going out act like you don't care. Usally friends never do that..if i was you i would make her jealous and then she'll know how you feel when she did that to you its not fair to you. Also tell him that you really liked him.

She's a backstabbing ***** who doesn't deserve your friendship...

you snooze you lose you should have moved in when you had the chance. hopefully you learned your answer

i smell some drama