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how does a girl know if she's bi?

i've got this friend and her and i are really close, we talk about everthing with each other. and she's a little confused about her life right now. she has fiance and she loves with ALOT and she doesn't want to lose him. they have a little boy together who is the cutest boy i've ever seen. but for the past couple months she's been talking to a bi-girl and she's starting to have feelings for this girl. and she starting to notice other girls. she doesn't know if she's becoming bi or not. so how does a girl know if she's bi or if she's just having a mid-life crisis or something like that. so please, any advice i can give her would be great. thanx.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    If I were your friend, Id discuss it with the fiance. Either he'll be totally disgusted with it or he'll let her experiment. Perhaps it'll get to the point of the two of them having the bi-girl join them. Nothing is wrong with sexuality, but they definitely need to be on the same page to be sure its not going to cause problems in their own relationship, and most importantly to their parenting of their son.

    I had problems accepting my sexuality when I was younger. Although I still try to keep it private and hush-hush, I feel a lot less guilty as I used to. Damn the ideas and whats considered right that is pushed on us from the media, religion, parents, etc.

  • 1 decade ago

    You can't know until you try it. Until then it's all just a story in your head. Being bi does not mean you have to lose your man.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    different times, different speeds. its not like there is a certain time to wait until you know your bi. even though im not a girl, i dont think everyone knows that they are at the exact same age. if they do, thats cool, and i had no idea.

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