Why do girls have to mess up every guy?

I think u should just do whats right in your heart. I know you really do love him and care about him a lot. Your still young Ash and you have so much to look forward to. I say you do your own thing and let him do his so he doesn't feel smothered. Stop hanging out every second of your free time and spend time together when you actually have something to do like your mini vacation. It gives you time to bond and to get to know one another better. But do lack on the sexual attention, he doesn't deserve it until he starts showing you more affection. Guys can't get it all u know!!! ~love ya

I am one of these guys. Don't distance yourself too much as he may just accept that you have moved on (which is his fear anyway). What your doing now may be fine since it seems to be working. I would just say to keep it going the way it is and don't worry about the label. He just needs to be able to trust a woman again and it will take him his own time to get to that point. Truthfully you are his gf so you really don't have to worry about it. Oh and stay away from the "L" word until he starts saying it.

However just watch yourself because he may be one of those guys that will never be able to trust again. If you really care about him and want to be with him then stay as long as you can but when you leave just leave. No distancing and no other guy just break up and go.

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I don't think you telling him you would never leave him for another guy is a good idea, unless you can see into the future. You cannot make that guarantee. Give him time to get over his past experiences, but stay with him. He may want to be with you, but doesn't want to announce it as a relationship. If you care about him do it, just understand what your getting into.

He loves you which matters the most. He is just a bit confused but just give him some more time and everything would be okay. You may not get a better partner. He will break down if you leave him.

You have to look out for your own heart, hon. In reading the details I heard 2 different things. 1 He doesn't want a relation ship (i.e. commitment) 2. He doesn't want to walk away from you. You can't have it both ways. There's one of these 2 things he wants more than the other. Beware of him stringin you out, keepin you on the line (or worse, in his bed) while he's tryin to 'figure this out' which he's probably already done.

Give him distance, but not too much because you dont want to lose him. I say talk to him let him know you are, and always will be there for him. I have been in that situation of being the on who was left, and its no picnic all we need is someone to love,

so do youre best to show him that you love him.

I guess you should distance yourself, becuase you're still giving him what he wants when yuo spend the night, only he doesn't have to have an attachment with you.

do you really want that?

you could try talking to him about it again though

you shouldnt distance yourself. that will be the wrong move. hell probably think like. see i knew she was just like them. stick with him. and show him that your not like them.

sounds like a bad episode of "the hills".