moving across country on a good instinct?!?

Uggggh what? Three weeks, wow that is a long time to get to know someone. Why do you feel like you would lose him if you don't run out there? Don't you think after he gets back next time he will come and see you? If so, then where are the morals you said he has? Listen, before you go on a tear for someone you do not know, take some time. If he has true feeling for you he will hunt you down.

Don't be foolish.

Yoda out

3 weeks is not enough time to know some one and to choose to relocate and leave anything behind for an stranger. On the internet and on the phone, anyone could be Mr. Wonderful and a week or weekend at the time is really easy to be on your best behavior and show only the good things.

You have to see if this military life is for you and know him and his personality treats very well before quitting your life to start over elsewhere with no certainty.

Give it some time, what's the rush anyway?

Do not move across country for a man you've only known 3 weeks. If it is right now it will still be right after the two of you get to know each other better. Long distance relationships are hard but do-able. It's better to try that than to move and things fall apart once you really get to know him. Good luck and be careful!!

Are you two talking about marriage? If so, you really do need to think hard if you can handle being a military wife. Being a military wife, myself, I suggest you get to know him for about a year, before you jump into anything. That way you can find out what all goes with his job, and if you can trust him, while he's gone. Get through the year, and you'll be good to go.

Well you are lucky - I believe strongly in soulmates and you seem to have found one of yours. I would just go with the flow and see what happens. You would be silly to let this one slip away.

Your grandson might desire to be satisfied that he has one among those loving grandmother. we are at such an age in technologies that various modes of verbal substitute are accessible. there is video chat (Skype), cellular telephones, on line messaging. in case you're on good words with your granddaughter, she might desire to be satisfied to maintain you in contact in his growth and progression. pondering thats she is 20 (iI'm 20 too), she's probable dealing with some questioning and has found out the style of accountability she owes to her son, by potential of going to college and at last getting a job. that isn't any longer undemanding at this age to attend to a baby once you're slightly an person your self. although, I nonetheless sense she might desire to be co-operative once you tell her your desires in the direction of your grandson. regardless of each and every thing, i think of all of us choose greater desirable than in user-friendly terms a mum and dad determine in our lives. Ask your granddaughter to establish conferences on a desperate day (or days) each and every week so as which you are going to discover him on video. Ask her to maintain you recommended as to whilst she would be ready to be coming homestead, and he or she might desire to in all probability convey him around. it's going to be no longer undemanding for him, pondering he sees you as one among his caregivers and that's significant which you look after an in depth and loving relationship even whilst he's away. do no longer situation! :-)

Well, as long as you move into your own place... why not?

what's the urgency? go slow see what evolves

Stay at home...you don't know him well enough.