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Girls only-Long distance problems?
Me and my LD ex girlfriend broke up a couple weeks ago after 3 months together. Well since then we seemed a lot closer and we talk as much as we used to again. She cries a lot since she misses so much of what we had. She says I'm a great guy and was so lucky to have me and the thought of me not being in her life is terrifying and depressing. She loves me so much. I love her so much also and still want my life with her (wanted to move up there for school in May). But she says the distance is so hard on her. She admits its only temporary, but not being physically close is too much. We were gonna do monthly visits but she still has the same problems w distance. We decided to go on a talking break last night so she can figure things out. I'm really confused right now as to what I'm supposed to do. I'm okay with distance since its till may but not her it seems. She says she truly loves me but shouldnt that conquer distance? What should I do? Should I wait this out or move on?
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I truly think that you should try to give her a break. Apparently we're kinda sure about your feeling and u know how to deal with the whole thing... she is not. There is nothing you can do to make her feel otherwise. She has to figure out how much she wants that relationship to work. I ain't always about love, because that can fade away. I'm sure she loves you, but that love is put to the test right now. It will be better for both of you if she figures things out.
Source(s): I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend and in 2 years I broke up with him at least 5 times. Distance gets to me sometimes, but at the end of the day, I know that I have someone special and I sure hang on to it! - 5 years ago
1. LEAVE THE POOR GIRL ALONE!!! What in the world makes you think you should even talk to her or that you are her friend??!! She's made it very clear from the beginning that she doesn't like you! 2. Get over her, she's never liked you and barely even know you exist, but she very much wants to ignore you! 3. Since when does becoming someone's friend by accident on Facebook mean anything?! And now you're are blocked, STOP STALKING HER you pervert! 4. Go find someone you actually know as a person and have talked to and try to be their friend, continue this until you find someone you like then ask her out. If she says yes then have fun, if she says no then leave her alone about it and just be friends. Don't stalk people. Repeat these steps until you get married!.. 5. Eventually you'll find someone who likes you as much as you like her and you two will find happiness, this will happen a few times in life, live for those times. 99.9% of all relationships don't work out, the other 0.1% is the person you marry. Get used to it and just enjoy life's experiences.
- cindos_69Lv 51 decade ago
It's hard to make a long distance relationship work, especially since you guys had only been together for 3 months. My boyfriend and I are far away at the moment as well, but we've been together for 6 years. Believe me, it's hard on us. Not being able to do anything together is driving both of us crazy. You need to have a strong enough bond to make it work. If you don't have that, then it's not worth your time. Only you can decide if it is. Good luck!
- AmyLv 51 decade ago
If you love her, go visit her. Don't let distance get in the way of love. Let love win! Take her a red rose, a teddy bear to hug when you're not there, and let her know it's only, what, a little over 4 more months til May?
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
If she really loves you then distance shouldnt be that much of a problem.
tell her this is kinda a test of your love. the longer you can last wiithout finding someone else b.c of the distance the truer your love is...
think about this, if you decide to one day get married, and lets say you went into the army... is she gonna leave you b.c of the distance for such a long time?
- 1 decade ago
you should continue emailing her and so on.both of you should do some dating and if any of the dates get serious you got to tell the other person cause if you don't do something quickly both of you will have to suffer you cn try toking to each other about your dates and let her know that she is far better than any other girls you dated
- txlady24Lv 41 decade ago
if you really love her and care for her like you said, then wait. blessings always comes with patience. just keep the communication open and you will be fine.
- DanielleLv 41 decade ago
move on, since she was w/ you so often, she is probably just used to hanging out wiht you. just give it time and you will both find really nice people
- 1 decade ago
i think she doesnt trust u enough... u need to takle time and try to cool down...long distance relationship is hard and no assurance...dont get me wrong but just give her time to really think...ok
gud luck