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should i give him one more chance?

so me and this guy have been on and off agian for three years, and now he wants to get back together with me. He told me he is in love with me and that he could see us married. But im just not sure. He has broken my heart so many times that all my friends encourage me not to but the thing is a think i love him to . im not sure what to do i have asked all my friends and family about it.

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im just scared im going to get my heart broken agian

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    if you think your going to be happy with him then go for it just be careful make him take it slow and see how things progress good luck ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    I suggest you follow your heart, I mean really follow your heart. Just because you love someone does not mean they are good for you, if you want to give him another chance, be sure of his intentions along with your own, let him show you how much you mean to him. Actions speak louder than words and sorry is only a word if it doesn't change the behavior. Don't rush into anything either way, be true to your heart. Good luck!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    3 years so your what 18? One dont take crap like that from no man. Your worth more than that and you should know it. Its hard when you love someone not to be with them girl believe me..my boyfriend and me just broke up and I still care about him and love him more than anything but he said there might be a chance he knows he making a mistake and will come back running. He gonna keep running because I may only be 17 but I aint got time for those stupid school kid games. I got college, my health, and my brother and sister to take care of. It sucks but im better than some guy playing games and thats exactly what yours is doing.

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to tell the audience here what this guy has done that has broken your heart so many times!! Nobody can give you any real advice if you don't specify what problems you two have been having. All you're going to get is extremely general statements! Spill your guts!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no!!! cut loose

    he knows your always there if he cant find anyone else

    hes obviously using you and only falls back on you whenever hes feeling lonely

    if hes broken your heart multiple times he obviously doesn't love you. whats stopping him from doing it again?

    there is someone out there who will love you and treat you so much better :)

    take your friends advice, friends are often right in these situations because they understand whats been going on and what hes been putting you through.

    just hold on. but if you do decide to try getting back with him please be careful and expect the worst i'm afraid he will hurt you again :(

    good luck sweetie

  • 1 decade ago

    No No No! Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with a jerk? You've already said he's broken your heart multiple times, what makes you think he's going to stop now? It's too late for you now, you've already let him get away with being an ******, he expects it from you. Cut your losses now.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    His tract record speaks for itself. If he is wishy washy in your relationship in the past, just think of 2 kids later and him being no different but leaving you to raise your kids alone. Keep Him away and find you a man instead of a boy to love you and take care of you...

  • 1 decade ago

    you got to ask your self what will be different this time round. If you can't found an answer then don't go back, but if you do sit down and tell him what you expect from this relationship and stick to it! good luck i hope it works out for you!

  • 1 decade ago

    revisit your fights..and breakups. see if they are probably unresolved issues.. and the chances of them reoccuring. are you really in love.. or flattered and missed him.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you love him give it another chance. it wont hurt to try.

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