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Men, do you sometimes feel forced to lie to your significant other about your attraction to other women?

Do you have to pretend that you never have the temptation to cheat? Though you might not go through with it

I know many women (not all, some are more realistic) that cannot stand the idea that their man might even be tempted by another woman. As far as I know, my husband as been faithful to me but I am sure that he feels attraction to other women. It wouldn’t be normal not to at least feel attracted to a beautiful, attractive woman. Heck, I am not gay but sometimes I see really attractive women and I know that if I was a guy I wouldn’t mind doing the naughty with them. Thoughts.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    No....there is a big difference between finding a woman or man attractive and wanting to do " the naughty with them " - I have been married to my gorgeous wife for 21 years & have never had any desire to cheat on her with anyone. My wife still rocks my world. Do I think other women are attractive ? ---Yes---Would I cheat with any woman ever even if she offered herself to me ? ---No.---- My wife fills all my needs + desires and more.----Hollywood can keep Angelina Jolie----I have my wife.

  • 1 decade ago

    well do u feel physical attraction towards good looking guys? cos i don't. my man is the best and even if u put a very perfect looking guy in my bed i wouldn't want him. cos this is what is in the head what makes us want someone. physical appearance is just a nice shell which makes us pay attention. so sure i can think "well, this is a good looking guy. i wonder how did he pump this tricep that perfect?" and this is it. i do not wonder what is he in bed or neither i want to be in bed with him. so surely a man can think about a woman "what a good looking woman" but if he loves his woman those would be the only thoughts about a pretty woman in the street

  • Marina
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I don't think I'm unrealistic in not being able to stand that my husband is actually TEMPTED by another woman, because that would mean he has taken a step beyond finding someone attractive and is flirting with the idea of taking it a step further. I have no problem with him looking as long as he isn't making love to another woman with his eyes. Call me old fashioned, but the only woman he should be totally drinking in like that is me.

  • 1 decade ago

    I am happily married to a great man. Other men don't tempt me in any ways, if they did I wouldn't be married to one. If others still "tempt" people, then they have no business being married in the first place.

    Source(s): common sense
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  • 1 decade ago

    A very good question and I like the stance you have taken on it. The same goes with me, I would be foolish to think my girlfriend doesn't find another guy attractive and we often joke with each other about a cute girl that I have seen or the cute guy she has seen.

    We have a very open communication policy within our relationship and it works out having it that way. I feel no need to cheat on her because I don't feel so locked down.

    Alot of times, reasons why guys or girls cheat is not only because they find the other person attractive, but also because they feel free when doing so... a feeling they don't always feel when with their mate.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I have never held back from admitting to my wife that I've seen some very, very attractive women. She knows it will go no farther.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well it depends on what kind of girlfriend you have. Some girls are so overly jealous they don't want to think that their guy finds another girl attractive. Most guys do find other girls attractive but in order to avoid drama...you lie.

  • 1 decade ago

    It is normal... the thing goes bad when they turn their looks into lust.... and act out on it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i keep all thoughts and doin's about other women to myself never tell anything.

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