How to Get a Message to "Adeline"?

How to get this message to someone whose question already "resolved"?

The other responses ahead of mine all seem to think the answer is automatically YES, but I would think that it depends mostly on the personality of the child, himself. No two people see the same situation in exactly the same way. It is not nearly so much what happens to us in life, but how we psycho/emotionally process it, that really matters.

Your child is at an early enough age that his emotional essence is still pliable.

You could try presenting to him the idea that he will be exceptionally lucky because most kids just have one home, but HE will have TWO loving homes to alternate back and forth between. Start him out with that viewpoint and maybe the negative ideas of of being deprived and damaged will never occur to him (and by the time he gets out in in the world where others can drop these negative concepts on him, he will already be accustomed to the positive aspects and their input won't affect hi