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Why do I feel so depressed because, of a girl?

I feel depressed because, I asked a girl out to a dance, I got to dance with her. It was a great moment. A couple days later I find that she did to make happy. I don't like the person who told me. I wanted much more than that. I wanted to go with me because she like me, not to make me happy. I really am glad I had my moment with her, but I wanted more. I have been trying to change my personality and be someone I'm not so she will notice me. I don't know what is wrong with me. I feel lost and upset at everyone around me when I should be upset with her. Why I am this way? I act depressed and can't stop thinking of her. Please help me.

Update:

She hasn't talked me in a long time. I use to start talking to her, now I'm waiting for her move. She hasn't said hello to me or nothing. I can't stop looking at her. I try to find her so I can look at her. I can't even say hello. I'm to nervous to see what she will say. I haven't talked to her since the end of October. The dance was in May. I think I tried to impress her too much. I'm a fool.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    usually when some one is trying to make some one else happy is because they care..so she likes you, otherwise she would have said no. ..if I were you I would ask her out to find out if she is in to me or not..u gotta prove that u want more than just a dance

    It's a cruel world..don't beleive what ever others tell u..

  • 1 decade ago

    It really doesn't matter the reason that a person wants to dance or date you. The only thing you can do is be yourself when the opportunity arises. You have to be yourself no matter what. You may end up being someone else and pleasing every one around you, but yourself. If you want to have more traits to your personality, well that is one thing, but don't ever try to change yourself.

  • 1 decade ago

    You really like this girl. and its good that you know you are changing yourself for her. What you need is closure go to the girl i know it will be hard and say do you like me at all. And if she says no you will know and you will hopefully be able to move on. yes it will be hard but eventually time will past and you will think of her less. You are this way cause you really liked her and its ok to be sad you'll work through it and maybe find a girl who likes you for you!!

  • its love...dont worry it happens 2 the best of us......dont change yourself for this girl....she's obviously not "the one" if she doesnt like you.....quit worrying about her.....one day you'll find a girl who likes everything about u and there won't be anything to change.......just have fun and enjoy being single until then :]

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Didn't you answer your own question? Get over it. There will be many other girls.

  • 1 decade ago

    your in love.

  • 1 decade ago

    BE YOURSELF NOT A JERK

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