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Are all women really some sort of crazy psychopaths???
My friends, and coworkers insist all women are, with out any doubt crazy, to some extent. I hear this from married friends, divorced ones, and single ones as well. I am single, and still searching for the right women, but I can't help but be worried that things could change drastically when I finally get hitched. All I ever hear are these horror stories from my friends past, and present home lives, and it gets me feeling hoplessly confused. Is it the man's fault, the womens, or both? I'm not sure. All the past women I've know have seemed relatively sane, but men and women do have different needs. Is it a comprise issue, or are women really just plain insane? So women... are youn's all crazy? This is your chance to speak your mind, and prove your argument. I need a second opinion, and it's only fair to hear the other side of the coin. I'm surely not going to ask my friends wives/girlfriends what they think, I'd not be invited over anymore, and my friends would be upset. lol
Calm down Nena, I'm just asking. It's not my opinion, at least not yet anyways....
14 Answers
- plasticLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
Women aren't insane. Just different from men. We were taught to be OPEN and EXPRESS ourselves, all the time. I am always analyzing things to the core, making something out of nothing. My sanity tell me I'm overeating but my female side (the side I'm told to embrace all my life), tells me to run with intuition. It can LOOK crazy to any man but really it's just perspective. It's the way most kids are raised. Boys are told to keep it in, never cry and accept. They are more simple creatures (not stupid- just less complex) and we women can't grasp that.
- 1 decade ago
No were not all insane, a relationship is give and take. I guess all women want to be treated as Queens but that's not going to happen. I was married for 27yrs and when my husband was upset i found a way to make him laugh, If he was working on the car i would be there to help.No matter what I was on his side, Right or Wrong.Marriage is a pardner ship,You will both make mistakes. Women are weird during P.M.S they feel fat they get whinny and cry and then blame it on the Man. Its all his fault Its even worst if they gain a pound. That would be your fault too.The best advice i can give is live with a woman for a year before you decide to marry her. That way you can tell what your in for Good Luck,You will find the right one for you. My son says that his girlfriend is also his best friend. Now thats something to think about
Source(s): Married life - hannahLv 41 decade ago
It all depends on the woman and the man she's involved with. If you ask my husband if he is happy being married he would tell you YES!! He's always telling his friends and co-workers how lucky he is. It's a give and take (not the woman doing all the giving). I'm a good wife because my husband is such a good husband. I think most women have it in them to be "crazy" if they are with the wrong guy. There are some men I know that I thank God I'm not married to because I'd probably get charged with spouse abuse. So, my advice to you is - take your time and find a girl that you can be friends with and love. You need to like the person you are married to for it to last.
- 5 years ago
I'll be honest and say the majority of black women are not to super attracted asian men. I know this because in the 90s I was the only woman out of all I knew who liked Asian guys. It wasn't only physical for me. I had a tremendous respect and interest for their cultures, languages, and history. I almost ended up marrying a Eurasian man. That being said, i sometimes find myself intrigued by them from afar, more from an experience and psychological level do I feel the desire to connect with them. However, it's not the time for that to happen just yet.
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- 1 decade ago
Apparently these people are not in happy with their marriage. The ones that have been divorced they thought that they found the right one and then found out that wasn't the one they wanted. The best partner for you will show up when you least expect it. The single ones, where are they looking? In bars? I think it takes both partners to have a happy life and marriage together and if something goes wrong then that's both of there faults. I can be crazy at times, but not a psycho.
- 1 decade ago
Well, speaking on behalf of myself... yes I am crazy, insane, whatever you want to call it. But neither the man nor the woman is to blame... it is called poor communication. If you want a relationship that doesn't turn out to be maddness... try reading some books (lame lame lame... I know). One of my favorites is (and wouldn't ya know it) Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Me and my hubby were having so many problems (mostly because of my crazy ideas and notions) until I read this book. Through it I learned how I was doing everything....WRONG and it was only a small percentage that he was doing wrong... I had alot twisted. But any how, not all marriages are nightmares, you just gotta be willing to find the right woman, ready to hear her complain about....craziness.... expect that she assumes she is right you are wrong... be willing to compromise.... and be willing (and this one is deffinately for both of you) to learn how to properly communicate with eachother. The lame book reading idea might be way old fashioned or whatever... but it saved my marriage.
And FIY....all the wives I know are just like me.....insane, insane, insane.... but it can work out to your advantage. Don't be too scared or overwhelmed.... we're not here to make your lives miserable.... okay maybe some of us are... but not all.... I swear!
EDIT: Seriously though, women aren't "crazy" as you say. Most of the times things like this are said....in my experience okay....are because the couple just had an arguement or are joking with eacother. Most of the time my husband calls me crazy is just his way of picking on me... having a little fun and all. Just because you hear horror stories or some of us actually admit to being extreme at times... doesn't mean you should be scared off or think women are all nuts or whatever. Be patient and the right girl will come for you. All of what I said previously about what to do to make it works... goes both ways.. just as she will think you are wrong there will be times when she needs to accept that you will think you are right and she wrong. It is all about give and take and you both have to remain equals.
- ♪Msz. Nena♫Lv 61 decade ago
Are all men some sort of lazy, cheating, low life sexist, pigs?
What's up with the stereotype? You men get mad when we stereotype you all as cheaters and such but you all love to stereotype us.
So, how do you like THOSE apples?
PS: My fiance and I have a great relationship and have been together for many years and are very happy. He hasn't complained that I am crazy or a "psychopath" as you claim we all are.. My best FEMALE friend works as a therapist for people who have violent thoughts whether it be to themselves or for others, are depressed, and the like.. and she actually has more male patients then female.
Boo-Yah.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
No. It sounds like you have some pretty low-class friends and co-workers. Start moving in different circles and you'll see women in a much better light. I'm betting the men in these relationships aren't prizes, either.
- 1 decade ago
well we women aren't crazy like some men think you know.. i have noticed that when men call us crazy is cause we are already sensing they are doing something wrong and we ? them and then we are just crazy you know.. that's their excuse to make us look like that and they the victims cause you men have the nerve to act like the victims you know... we women don't get all crazy until you guys begin to lie and hid things if you all would just be honest and truthful we would not get all crazy as they say we get... but we women know when something is wrong and we start getting yea your right crazy trying to figure out whats going on you know... so all those men who call their women crazy trust me there up to no good.
so just be honest dont keep anything from them and you wil not have a crazy on hand....
- Anonymous1 decade ago
They are crazy in a way because it is impossible to make them happy. The second a man realizes this life is much easier so you stop jumping through hoops for these mental patients!!!