Me and my girl breakup and makeup....ur opinion?

Long distance relationships are hard on anyone. Even when people truly love each other. She will have a whole new world of experiences and people open to her. You will both need friends and companionship. Life is about change. Sometimes miracles happen and love is stong enough to endure longtime seperation. My advice to you is live your life, stay in touch, don't argue, each time you do it causes a crack in the concreteness of your feelings for each other. Support her, love her, and tell her you miss her and can't wait to be together again. Send cards, letters, and send her flowers with a teddy bear that says I love you. Remember her birthday, write her a poem or a song, send her little gifts now and then. Remember, you are competing with distance and the new people that will enter her life. It will take more than phone calls to keep her in your life. It will take the deep bond of commitment and encouragement. Be there for her. I wish you the very best of luck. I had a long distance relationship and we loved each other passionately, but I couldn't relocate, we both had ill parents to care for and we both met other people. Today he is married and so am I, but not to each other though we remain very close friends. Friendships are so important. Love doesn't always go the way we hope it will or want it to, but friends can last forever.

Pami

Man...long distance relationships are really difficult..I have been there, so I know where youre coming from.

You guys are probably arguing because you are both stressed over the situation. You are both worrying what the other person is doing far away without you and then you are getting worked up about it. Stress makes people do and say dumb things.

It sounds to me that you really dig each other and if that is true...then hang in there!! Trust your partner and try to see each other as often as you can. Good luck!!

It doesnt mean that your relationship has to break if you r having arguments.Arguments happen in all relationships. I think both of you have to find a little time to spend with both. You can have holidays if you want. As it is upto a person to make time out of busy schedule if he/she wants to. I wont ask you to break your relationship if you both find it is nice and beautiful...Dont take any decision alone. You both sit together and have a talk and take decision..To break a relationship is easy but to get into a nice one is difficult..God Bless

The stress of being apart is heavy on both of you. Go ahead and part ways so you can each date local people and stop agonizing about what your long distance partner is doing...that's surely not going to be conducive to her doing well in school.

Long distance relationships rarely work for long...too many add'l challenges and mistrust, and frustration over being separated and alone.

You've only been apart for two weeks and already, your relationship is going to hell, that right there is a sign that it's only going to go downhill, you should talk to her about it, tell her how everything is going downhill and you don't think it's best if you two stay together if it's going to be like this. There are other people around you, and there are other people around her. I think it's the best thing to do.

its better for both of you to take a break from this relationship for a while otherwise you will breakup and hate each other.Its because of the distance.

Well hun, i know how you feel cuz i have had something

kinda like that. It hurts i just left him and till this day

i still love him. Just leave her.

your on a constant roller coaster and thats not good. if she comes baq to visit u have to sit down and talk with her. this isnt a healthy relationship . maybe its time to break up .

i think you need to talk to her. I mean not txt talk! Like say i love you, i think that we need to talk [ and this does not always mean you are going to break up] just talk