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how can i get over it.?

ok im in love eith this guy matt...he,s really cool and his a real role model in my eyes and he can do no wrong...problem 1. he,s stright 2.he has a gf who is my friend (though him) 3. he's my sectio leader in band #. im not even sure f he like me that much. its soo confusing!!! i should not be atracted to him. he's like my brother. :(

Update:

yes im gay and i have come out to him

Update 2:

haha i know he doesnt want to date me i just want to get oner likeing him!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Its not your fault your attracted to him! Your gay and your born with it. Nothing you can control man. Dont beat yourself up okay? To get over him I know this sounds cooky but you should try meditating. You need to tell your own brain that he will not harbor you to him. You can find somone perfect in life okay? I wish you the best of luck :)\

    On a side note, do you like rap? This guys rap puts me in a trance! check him out when you get a chance

    www.myspace.com/shing02

    Source(s): I'm gay.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't mix confusion with emotion my friend.

    1. If as you say he is like your brother, then treat him like it.

    2. If he is straight don't do something that will risk your friendship with him and his girl friend.

    3. He is your section leader.

    Are you just mixing admiration for him as an all rounder ?

    Leave things alone mate the knock on effect of destroying relationships and friendship will never be repaired if you pursue your feelings.

  • 1 decade ago

    Man.*sigh* sounds like my old proublem!!! (but im a girl and stright) I creid my eyes out for nights till i went to sleep. Then one day i wook up and realized that i shouldn't cry over him. He just isn't worth it!!!!!!!!!!! How long were yall together? well anyways it may take time but soon youll see hes not worth it. Just try to find some one else.

    I hope you dont get your fellins hurt!!!!,

    Candy(Candycode79@yahoo.com)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Try to forget about him and his good looks, in about a month you'll be wondering what you where so worried about! Belive me it's best if you leave it alone, everything will mess up if you say something and plus his gf will most probably hate you. :( Hard i know. Good Luck!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If he's straight I dont think he is going to like you hitting on him. I think you should try to meet other guys who are gay. You might be surprised on how you feel around them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you are a hot mess hun, sorry to tell you but someone has to. just get over it, there are so many nice and hot Gay guys out there why falling for a straight one that doesn't even like you, and don't tell me you can't choose who you fall for cause that is BS.

  • Jeff B
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Don't fall in love with straight guys, if you're gay, bad idea. It will end badly. Plus it will ruin your friendships.

  • 1 decade ago

    get drunk

    go to a gay bar

    makeout with some lil boys

    eat cookie dough

    pass out on the couch

    buy a new man purse

  • 1 decade ago

    he is ur friend not your boyfriend and you cant just turn a straight guy gay overnight. if his life is focused on being straight and liking girls then let him fellow that dream dont force him to date you. there are better guys out there for you

    Source(s): good luck
  • 1 decade ago

    sorry really but hes straight so i say you strip in front of him and he just might change tell me if u do that and he dose

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