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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

virgin problem or normal?

im a virgin, that is stuck inbetween a boy & manhood. the problem is that girls that appeal to me whom ive found an interest in and tried to get to know better either ended up in rejection or had my game-plan sabotaged by third-party cockblockers.

now there were multiple occasions in my past where i couldve lost my virginity to escorts & hookers, some of the escorts were extremely hot like playboy hot. but realized that id rather die a virgin than have to pay for it to lose it so i passed them up. not that there is anything wrong with paying for sex, just that the first time should be.. wholesome.

then there are those girls that dont appeal to me what so ever in which i have no interest in and have never or would ever ask out. i again would rather die a virgin than have that as an option.

so is this normal? where do i go from here? im fairly sure its only a matter of time before i meet a girl where theres a mutual attraction.. so whats the consensus?

glad no one knows who i am!

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    its normal , wait for the right girl

  • 5 years ago

    You are not supposed to meet a lot of ppl where there is a mutual attraction because than you could date anyone. Don't get upset because everyone has problems with rejection or the opposite where you are not attracted to the person. Just keep on trying. I know a guy who hasn't tried since highschool where he dated a ton of girls and now he is a 26 yr old virgin. Virginity is not a bad thing. I was 21 when I lost mine and that was with someone I really cared about. Sex is not a big deal but getting STDs is or AIDS. You are fine... You will not die a virgin. Have sex when you are ready... I wasn't till i was older because I didn't trust guys with my feelings. You will have sex b/f you know it because say you are 20 when you have sex than you have got more 80 yrs to have sex. Don't rush you have the rest of your life!

  • 1 decade ago

    Hay man !!!

    HOW GAY ARE YOU ?

    Seriously

    I know you want your first time to be special and all but seriously come on you gave up sex. Also important thing to remember is that you can only have limited sex with escorts by that I mean you can’t go all the way you cause at the back of the mind you will be thinking AIDS/STD etc. But still you can still have a good frack. Also it will be limited oral sex, considering she can suck yours with a condom only and you can’t taste her at all.

    Still with all the diseases going around maybe celibacy maybe the right option till you meet your dream girl. But remember you are getting older by the minute. There might not freaking enough time to bang her and have your Dreamy first time (everything you imagined) and then say hay I want to experience sex with different people too. The time is NOW eventually you will connect with the right person you are meant to be with but till that time at least have some fun.

    Dude its SEX with different girls You can never have Enough. (I hear each one is a different experience).

  • 1 decade ago

    I for one think male virgins ae very sexy, because they wait for the right person. As for dying a virgin, I seriously doubt it. When you want to have sex with someone you will. ANy girl who turns down such a unique expedrience, is not the right girl for you. Don't lower your standards. Why should you? It's the double edged sword. Women are considered chaste, men odd. You might try attending religious groups where there are similar feelings.

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  • 1 decade ago

    honestly the f***ing amazing

    i mean not most guys are like that and they are jerks..

    i would rather spend time with a guy like you than i guy who would do anyone.

    Its completely disgusting when people will do anyone and dont care about there first time. Its great you care and because you do your first time wont be a major regret and you will be good

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think it's completely normal. everyone's first time, male or female should involve some sort of mutual affection. i personally believe that sex is an emotional thing as it is a physical thing. wait for it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yeah man have patience...It will happen. Don't waste your time or money on Escorts. the right girl will come along. usually when your not looking.

  • 1 decade ago

    dont pay for sex it isn't worth it just find someone that you like and are in a relationship with then go for it and it isn't abnormal what ever other people say

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dude. Find yourself a nice girlfriend and make sure you are comfortable around her, and visa versa, then see if she wants to have sex, and then bang her if she says yes

  • 1 decade ago

    this is perfectly normal and its great that you want the first time to b real!

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