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Is it normal to miss your ex-husband?
I haven't talked with him since the day we split over three years ago.
15 Answers
- judeLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
sure its quite normal because chances are there was unfinished business, there always is. theres always things u wanted to say and didn't. theres always the what if's that come to ones mind after the fact. when u love someone even divorcing them doesn't take away the feelings u once had for them. after all they were the person u expected to grow old with, and the person u trusted your heart to. unfortunately there will be bittersweet emotions, especially at Christmas time, remembering all the good between u and than, even the bad can't stop the memories u have.
- 5 years ago
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/ZRaF1
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
- love my lifeLv 51 decade ago
Of course it's normal to miss him. You shared a life with him. But after three years are you sure you just don't miss some of the things you did together, and not so much him. If you are still alone it's possible that you just miss having someone.
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- 5 years ago
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Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better. But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction. So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way. You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her
- 1 decade ago
Hi Shea! Yeah, it's normal. I left my ex in 1988 and I still miss him. I don't miss the misery we sometimes shared, but the really good things, like the music he introduced me to, the things he used to cook, his perspective on politics and stuff, his humour....
- 1 decade ago
I believe that we will always be haunted by our past at some point in our lives. I actually think over time or years of being apart you forget the bad things in the relationship and tend to have moments that you miss him. You shared your life with this person, and they will leave imprints in your heart.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Could be that you are lonely. You could be missing the comfort of knowing someone is around. Don't get involved again if you think that this is the reason. You will only regret it.
- 1 decade ago
Yes there was obviously a reason you two got married, you're probably still holding on to that, plus the history that you had