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How do i get his attention?

I recently have been with a wonderful guy--out a few times, his friends say he is head over heals about me, but they say he is scared to admit it. I really like this guy, i can tell he is scared to go on, but yet he continues to call and come over. Help me what can I say to get his undivided attention without scaring him off.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think you need to ask him how he feels about you. You don't want to get totally involved with this guy only to find out later that is just wants to be friends. The same thing happened to me, where this guy and I started going out and he actually was spending a lot of time at my place. We finally had a conversation about us and he explained to me that he doesn't really want a girlfriend right now because he's trying to get himself back on his feet from his previous marriage and he wants some things established before persuing someone else. That's all well in good, however; my feelings were already starting to show. So just be careful and find out how he really feels. Good Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Just make out with him in a really light, non-sexual way. The fear is like a roller-coaster ride: once it's peaked, everything else from there's all good.

  • 1 decade ago

    This is pretty simple. Just tell him that you like him. Don't keep the poor guy in suspense.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    we have the same prob girl.. but u see i dont do anything.. he just comes.. dont give him crazy ideas.. just be urself.. he'll come in time eventually.. good luck girl!:)

  • 1 decade ago

    just say hi talk a lil and see if u have anything in comen and if u want to know more vist me a t shmexy_one@yahoo.com thanks bye

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