why are people, male and female such idiots when it comes to relation ships?

I agree completely. But the reasons are numerous.

several people in the world have low self-esteem and little self-respect.

Some are desperate

some feel that the odds are not in their favor of finding another mate(homosexuals, jail birds, STD infected people, players, and men out number women)these limit the number of available men

and some feel that a real relationship that is a faithful commitment, involving real love towards one another, or even a marriage without divorces as an option is unrealistic, only a mere fantasy. So they settle for less.

but the list goes on and on.

I hate it because boys and men seeing this has made most of them forget what love really is. You can't find anyone with good old fashioned values.

Because they let the heart rule the brain. Some brains can only think 75 cm above the ground.

Fellings

We are such morons because we listen to our emotions and not our intellect. Put another way, "Love makes fools of us all." --William Shakespeare

i dont believe poeple like that can be called morons

i think they put the greater effort into the relationship and when it goese wrong cannot except they have failed.

but you know they do come to the right decission and get the strenght to move on

Why no longer? as long as they could shield the certainty that they have the two have been given stressful, draining yet with a bit of luck satisfying jobs. have they have been given considerable issues in user-friendly like political, non secular, kinfolk values? Do they agree on money?

Take pheremones, emotions, horomones, and miscommunication and toss it in a blender for 30 minutes. That's the best I can do for soup.

If being forgiving and trying to work on relationships that matter most to you deem one an idiot than so be it. But I do not share your opinion though I will respect it.

They feel they "need" the people that hurt them the most. Because they like their emotions played with like a guitar.

Because in relationships people rule with their hearts and not their heads. We are forgiving by nature and if we were not we would all be alone and never reproduce.