getting him to want me???

Most of these answers are good to spice up a sagging love life. But the best way is to just start the action. You can do all of the romantic things and sexy things but most men are simply tired of getting turned down. There is an old joke about the husband walking in the bedroom with 2 Tylenol and a glass of water. The wife said, "What's that for? I don't have a headache." The man replied, "Gotcha!" (this works both ways of course) Usually, men just want to be and made to feel wanted. This means that the woman starts the sex. The more sex you have, the more you want it. (Usually) If he continues to not want sex or turns you down, take him to the doctor immediately for a check up. There are many different reasons for him not wanting sex. Most of them are medical. If he checks out healthy, then you better sit him down and explain the facts of life to him. He puts out or he gets out or you get a friend to help you with your needs. This is just the beginning and the sooner you get this issue resolved, the less frustrated you will be. You need to let him know while you are not interested in cheating, he had better man up or he can be replaced, if only for a couple of hours or so at a time.

perfume will do it - when you put it on in the a.m. and he smell it throughout the day, it will drive him crazy. i wear "chanel allure" "true romance, ralph loren" you get it - i get compliments all the time by men and alot say i smell soo good i can only wonder what they want to do next. men love it when you put the effort forth, they see when you care about yourself, you know how to treat a man. good luck

I think you should change up your look a bit, find out what he finds attractive, if he likes long hair, get a weave or wig, if he likes certain types of clothes, buy and wear them, does he like long nails ? if so, get some fake fingernails, you know things like that. trust me it'll catch his attention, and make him more attracted to you, which will equal more sexual attraction

try calling him from your cell to induce foreplay. talk about ur fantasies one night then act them out the next. go to a sex store they have tons of ideas. www.foryourpleasure.com

WELL FIRST,TURN THA LIGHTS DOWN

SECOND,LIGHTS CANDLES

TIP:IF HE IS IN THA SHOWER GET IN WITH HIM

THIRD,GO BUY A SEXY PIECE OF LINGERIE

FOURTH,HAVE A BOWL OF CHOCOLATE WHIP CREAM AND STRAWBERRIES

NEXT TO THA BED WHEN HE LAY DOWN

FIFTH,TAKE THA WHIP CREAM AND CHOCOLATE AND MAKE A HEART THEN TAKE A STRAWBERRY PLACE IT IN THA CENTER OF THA HEART COVER IT IN WHIP CREAM AND TAKE YOUR MUTH AND EAT IT