my ex girlfriend and my girlfriend?

Walk away from both to clear your head. Then you will know which is right for you. It could be one or the other, or perhaps neither, but you will be sure.

You can't "get" her to open up to you. She will open up if she feels comfortable - but sounds to me like you guys have some issues that are complicating your relationship. The advice I would give is - don't be 1) too desperate, or 2) too pushy. Just be yourself, have a good time with her - but don't be all over her in any way. OK, she has this crazy idea that you only want her for sex; well, don't bring up sex at all, keep your hands to yourself, and enjoy the conversation. I'm not really sure what her problem is - I don't get it how can a girl be with someone for two years, and be convinced that this person is only with her because of sex; that's just silly. It sounds to me like she, herself, doesn't know what she wants - and it can be kind of a dangerous situation for you, as you could get your heart broken very easily. Just be careful, ok. Good luck.

I suggest you take a time off away from these two girls. No matter how hard it may seem to do, do it. This will help you clear your head as to who you would choose in the end. In the end, you're sure to choose the one you really like the most. But, if the at the end of the tunnel, you're still undecided, then don't be afraid to go on your own. That's perfectly fine. There might be other fishes in the sea for whom your love is meant to be given to.

Dont worry pa.It is simple problem.First you should know that if you want to gain one you have to loss another thing.

But in case of girl friends it doesn't matter.Just do what i say.

If the two friends are at different locations ,then follow these instructons

*Go to ur girl friend and tell "Hey did u see Ur face any time in mirror"

Ur Problem will solve..

Well just tell your gf that u still have feelings for ur ex maybe she will understand,if u guys broke up not that long ago,of course ur gonna still have feelings for her,or u can stop talking to ur ex so u wont have feelings for her anymore. It was the same for me but i didn't love my ex so much.i liked her but not love her i thought i did but i didn't and we only been together for 2 months,and she was basically my first gf then like a month later after we broke uo i still had feelings for her but i also liked my gf so i stopped talking to my ex for good to get her off my mind and i did then me and my gf are both happy together and i love her so much and im glad me and my ex broke up

let your current girlfriend know that your feelings for your ex girlfriend resurfaced and you want to see if you all can work it out

keep in mind that your current g/f may not take the news lightly

also, let me give you an insight on how us females work.....sometimes we don't necessarily "want" our ex's but it's a 'challenge' for us to get our ex's back when we know they are involved with someone else

so don't play yourself

If you like someone else, she'll find out, and eventually get the message. That is if you don't come up with a way to say in words.

Just tell her that you don't think it's really working because you guys never talk in person together like you should in a relationship...

If anyone tells u to tell her the truth, don't...because then she would just think you were the biggest jerk ever.

Hope it goes well for you!

Be honest. Tell her that you ran into your ex and the two of you have decided that what you had is worth working on. And, wish her the best!

If you really want to make it back into the string with the first,then it is hard to say that the one you are with now will take it.