Married Woman VS Married Men?

i guess girls want guys more than they ever care. face it baby, we are men. we arent the emotional type, we are tough and generally insensitive. we want women for the most obvious reason everyone knows, and after that we cant just be bothered with what they do. after that its our car and football or sport and work, the tough things in life. of course, we cant live without women, but every man wants a woman for obvious reasons.

i am committed to a girl who i appreciate in everything she does for me. but there are too many beautiful women and i can't in anyway overlook that. but if i had to stop and wonder the little details on what each one is doing just to impress me, i'd be a 100 before i finish with the first 2 women.

i hope i can see beyond the physical in a woman. but i guess its not happening in this life. sorry!!! maybe if a girl can understand a bit of football, or understand the technicalities of a ferrari, he would be interested in her more than just at bed time.

Wow, what planet are they from?? This wife changes for NO MAN, A man should love the person you are, Not the person HE THINKS you should be. Not all marriages are like that at all. My husband is up every morning long before HE wakes me up. I come downstairs and he says good morning and hands me a cup of coffee. Oh yeah, and I am still in my night clothes, hair in a ponytail holder and no make-up. I still wear the same kind of clothes I wore before we were married, very little makeup(usually only if we are going out). These things are totally in material in his eyes. It is the beauty inside that the man should be seeing, and caring more about than the beauty on the outside. And after 6 beautiful children, the flame has not gone out. We still had our problems, all marriages do, But never once did EITHER of have to change to work them out and stay together. We are exactly the same people we were when we were just dating. So please don't let those wives make you believe that the only way to keep a man is always looking gorgeous, IT'S NOT. Good Luck and I hope you find the right man.... I know I did !!

Men read this very carefully and never ever get married. They have some imagination while you are paying for everything and taking care of them. Once you realize it is impossible to make a woman happy you will enjoy life more and ignore her. Why do you think men that treat women like garbage gets so many women because it drives them crazy that they can't control someone!!!

What you don't see is what happens behind their closed doors. Marriage is never 50/50. Sometimes you'll be giving 80%, other times you only give 30%. The things you mention are fairly superficial anyway. Love and marriages do not revolve around the woman making her self look good for the man. Yes, it is a nice bonus but that isn't the glue holding people together.

Wow....well I think that's a very broad stereotype you've just laid out there. Yes, there are couples where that is the dynamic and personally I don't think those couples have healthy r'ships. It should never be that lopsided. But not every married couple is like that. My husband tries very hard to impress me, be sweet to me, and show me every day how much he loves me. He doesn't buy new clothes to impress me but it's small things like he'll wear a blue shirt and then whisper in my ear "I wore this for you because I know you like it." :) Or he'll clean out my car for me just because....or take my car & fill it up with gas. Men have their ways of showing how much they love their woman too....it's just not always in the same way. Gary Chapman wrote a book called "The Languages of Love" or something similar. It talks about how every person has their own "love language" and that it's important for their spouse to speak that language and understand it. I think every couple should read this book. For instance, one woman may see love as her man buying her flowers but her man may see love as paying the bills. They both love each other but they have different perspectives (or languages) in how they SHOW IT.

If a man loves a woman he will love for who she is, whether that means hair messed up wearing boxer shorts or all dolled up. I am one man who believes that a woman should be who she wants to be. I love my wife not an image of what a wife should be.

I would guess that perhaps your friends are not doing these things for their husbands, but because they do not know who they want to be and lack the confidence to be themselves.

Anyone who acts differently to impress anyone is not being true to themselves. They must learn to be happy with who they are. i think that confidence is sexy and most men would agree. Most men would probably rather not be bothered with "all of the "how do I look?" questions that we recieve. A lack of confidence on the other hand is unappealing.

We love our wives and already think they are beautiful, so ladies, relax, just be yourself and be confident.

Yoda out

I guess your friends just found the wrong guys and seem desperate to hang on to them. Nobody told them to do that, they can stop any time and see how the guy changes. They don't need to wake up and put on 10 pounds of make up and look good just to impress him, if thats the case then they married for the wrong reasons.

I don't know any married people like that. My wife doesn't get up before me and fix herself up. She sometimes fixes herself up, sometimes she doesn't. She hasn't dressed for me in years. I keep myself looking good. I put on nice clothes whenever we are doing something. I like my wife in a nice skirt, I NEVER see her in one unless we are going to dinner, and not always then. She never puts on lingerie for me. I believe that most women once married, and most men too, get into a comfort zone and become lazy. It's the attitude that I don't need to impress anyone anymore.

Because you are over generalizing stereotypical portrayals of men and women. Get married and then think about what is REALLY going on here.

good observation

you have won the prize, but if you don't stay single you will lose it...

I have young guys in our office that I tell all the time..."dude, don't you listen to all the married woman and men complain about life all the time, go out F woman, have fun, party and enjoy life...wear a condom for petes sake"