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Is this a true friend?
I don't want to sound selfish or anything but my best friend of 7 years birthday is tonight, and two weeks ago she asked me if I wanted to go and of chorse I told her yes. Well today (shes my roommate by the way) she just gets up and tells me "Okay wish me luck at my party" and just leaves......
She didnt tell me what day or time her party was and didnt even bother asking me if I still wanted to go. I even asked her when it was and she told me she didnt know... Concidering her birthday is on Monday, I assumed it was then.
She tells everyone I'm her best friend but NEVER invites me to do anything with her... I always invite her to do things but she always declines because she claims she hates going out.
Is there something wrong with me? Or is she ashamed of me, which if that is the fact, then she shouldnt be a true friend because she shouldnt be embarassed of who I am!
What do you think???
12 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
She probably just doesn't realize she's being selfish. If she was ashamed of you, she wouldn't tell everyone you're her best friend.
- I can only be meLv 41 decade ago
You know you should talk to her about. Because just to be true, sometimes when you have a best friend for so long and then ya'll be come roommates ya'll kind of get tired of each other. (But that doesn't mean ya'll not still best friends) The only right think to do would tell her how you feel. That's what best friends do. Talk things out. Tell her everything you just wrote on here. If things don't change after ya'll talk I would be questioning what kind of friend she really is.
No I don't think it was right of her to do what she is. And your right she should be embarrassed of who you are.
Good luck with you and your friend.
- SapphireLv 51 decade ago
I agree with Samy! I think she would avoid calling you her best friend if she was ashamed of you.
Have you ever talked to her about all this? You mentioned you two were roommates so you see each other all the time, maybe it could of been a simple misunderstanding that she might of got the impression that because you see each other all the time, she figured you didn't want to go. Did you maybe give her the impression you didn't want to go by mistake?
- 1 decade ago
This is not a true friend. Talk to her that if things don't get better or work out, then something serious will have to be done. It is not fair to you to have to guess about your friend, whether if she is going to be a friend today or not. If she was a true friend, then she would keep the lines of communication open with you and tell you all of her problems. I hope your problem works out.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
i have this friend dat may b a little different from urs . dat if ur hangin wit ur best friend or so called best friend one day and u spend alot of fun time wit her u take pictures and everything buh then wen u go bac to school she acts like nothing ever happen and doesnt talk to u dat much around otha ppl...
- cherry babeLv 71 decade ago
! dosnt seem to be a true friend. Or maybe she dosnt want to get too involved with you just in case things get a bit close to personal relationship. maybe she wants to be distant!
- 1 decade ago
yes... she is probably embarassed by you. this doesnt mean stop being friends with her, but she is not a true friend, or a best friend. she is just a "friend", if that.
- debbie dLv 41 decade ago
kinda sounds like she's hiding who she's hang-in with and what she's Donnamarie shes hanging with people she knows you don like and maybe there involved in something bad?