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After sex, do you enjoy sleeping in the same bed with your mate?

I enjoy having sex with my gf (I know..what’s else is new) but I have notice that I like to sleep alone, and that’s something I have done with all the girls I’ve had sex with. I mean I cuddle and hug and all after sex. I don't really tell her but when it comes time to sleep I rather be by myself, is it strange? Does anyone else experience this too?

Due to our jobs, We don't live togther, but I do stay over every once in a while.

Update:

wow I think I am not the only freak... hahee J/K

Anthony F: Its the same if she stays over too, I guess I just like my space like someone said.

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  • dork
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    It takes quite a while to get used to sleeping with someone else.

    After you do, you actually like it better.

    It's even better sleeping with two women afterwards!

  • 1 decade ago

    I actually hate sleeping alone, I like holding someone when I sleep, and recently I have problems falling asleep because I'm not with my boyfriend...I hope I can see him soon. I suppose you aren't strange, you just want your space or want to be alone, but it might upset your girlfriend. But I know sleeping in a bed with someone can get a little cramped and it is nice to have your space once in awhile.

  • 1 decade ago

    Some people don't do well unless they are in their own bed. Do you feel the same way if she sleeps in your bed, instead of the other way around? My wife was away for a couple of days and I found out that I really enjoyed having the bed all to myself.

  • 1 decade ago

    it might just be that you are used to sleeping alone..it took my husband and I a little while to sleeping in the same bed because we had slept alone prior to that..every now and then we still find that we get deeper sleep if alone

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  • 1 decade ago

    there was actually are recent study that showed that sleeping in separate beds is good for you overall.

    im sure you can find it on google.

    Me, sex, cuddle, sleep, wake up, cuddle, sex.

    repeat.

  • 1 decade ago

    I agree 100 percent...I love to cuddle but I need my space!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I actually like sleeping with my bf after sex, I dunno about him but it makes me feel comfortable I dunno it's hard to really explain it. Hehehe you just gave me a question to ask him too.

    I don't think it's strange wanting to sleep alone especially if that's what you're used to doing and always doing in the first place.

  • YEAH, me too.!.. I'll fall to the ground and I sleep on the floor instead... That a good question , EHEHE

  • Lynzy
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    awww your not the only one my besty is like that too. I personally could sleep on anything anywhere haha

    happy new year

    Source(s): Biology/History Teacher
  • 1 decade ago

    I like sleeping w/my mate

    it makes me feel closer to them and feel wanted

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