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Is it wrong 4 a friend to date a person the other friend is interested in? The 2 friends r female?

I have a long time friend(friend #1) who is upset that I'm dating her friend(friend # 2). Friend 1 has wanted to be in a relationship with me for years and professed her love for me. But I have always kept friend 1 as just friends. Friend 2 is not close with friend 1 and 12 years ago I briefly dated her. Friend 1 has told friend 2 about her love for me, but has also told friend 2 that her and I should hook up. So, now me and friend 2 have hooked up and friend 1 is upset and threatened to beat down friend 2.

Is friend 2 wrong for accepting my invites out knowing that friend 1 had/has deep feelings for me? I mean, I never had a relationship with friend 1. She fell in love all by her lonesome.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    no

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe friend #1 is no longer as in love with you as she used to be. People change their minds all the time about "love" when they are young. So friend #2 has not betrayed friend #1 by accepting your invitations. A girl friend of mine and I both dated the same young man when we were in high school and after 50 years we are still good friends.

  • 4 years ago

    properly, if pal A is over him and informed pal B that she doesnt care approximately them going out, then i think of its positive. yet, if pal B went out on a date with him and pal A nevertheless likes him then its ttly incorrect. It relies upon on the acquaintances courting to understand if that's going to harm it. It shouldnt harm pal A's thoughts reason she almost stated that it may be positive for B to bypass out with him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes I do think it is wrong, if you are clearly upsetting your friend you should not do it. If your friend was not overly upset then it would not be a big deal.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    In my personal experience, I don't think its right. You can't expect friend 1 to just be happy. Its in a girls nature to be angry and jealous if the person she loves is getting hit on by someone else who loves you less. Please please PLEASE end it.. Friend 1 obviously appreciates you more, and tbh it sounds like she's in love with you, and when your in love, all you want is to be loved back.

    :)

    Source(s): Personal Experience,
  • 1 decade ago

    no no and hell no! do u not noe wat kinda of drama u gon get ur self into?this happened to me b4unless u want alot of drama coming 2 u i think 4 ur best interest iz 2 find some one who doesnt hang with them. okay and i hope my answer is sinking in2 ur head and u beta listen or else u gon b in so much drama u aint gon noe wat 2 do

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