Is this weird 10 Points for honest answer?

He does have his priorities mixed it.

With the exception of your aunt, which is just weird...he sounds like he's very materialistic, and concered about what people think of him. He's trying to impress people with his car (that he doesn't own), his tan (which he didn't get on some exotic vacation), and the "right" gym.

He wants people to see him as important and successful instead of some loser who doesn't have his act together.

Ya just a little. He really should be plan on setteling down or making investments for long term by now. He still acts like he's 20 and if he's not in school then he's just playing around, and life is just about fun at the moment, or in his case a few moments. But ya ur not alone. Hope I don't do that although fun is fun, but owing someone my whole life doesn't sound fun at all and im 20.

It really sounds like he's just unhappy, and not where he wants to be at this age. He probably thought he would be married, or at least in a serious relationship at 32. He might be jealous of you, as you're six years younger, but doing better than him. As for the house part, that doesn't sound like such a big deal, he probably just doesn't want to pay for a house until he has a family to live in it.

He can't accept that you're more responsible and doing more responsible things with your money and life. He's that type of man that lives from day to day. Do some soul search. Take some me time and think about is this the kind of relationship you want to be. It's all about you and your wants and desires in life. Don't settle for less. Be Blessed.

u r right to think he got his priorities all mixed up but again, it's just ur thought!!! he might have plans or achievements you don't know about! just cos one makes money doesn't mean they have more money, it's all about financial management.

it's interesting you two live together. well, all i'd say is if you have plans on owning a house, let him know in advance.

i do not think it is but i am sure it will go to someone that feels the same way like you do.

Some people just aren't very good with money and it shows with the items they purchase. He obviously isn't the sort of guy to settle down - he doesn't have a wife and kids and doesn't own a house.

He puts on a front to make himself LOOK sucessful, but I bet he's actually in debt.

It's not so much weird, just typical.

BACHELOR

It sounds like he feels insecure and is very concerned about other people's impressions of him. Try talking with him about what he wants out of life and what is important to him. It could help him put things into perspective and help him sort out his priorities. If you are not one of his main priorities, I'm sorry to say it but you should let him go.

Yes some people have their priorities mixed up. First come the apartment or condo or house then the vehicle lol. Sheesh

Some guys take longer to mature. If he's 40 and still playing I wouldn't be surprised but it's going to become much harder for him to find someone if he ever wants to settle down.

However, I am concerned that you are living with him and he tries to make you feel uncomfortable.

honestly i think you're right - he sounds like he's in a dreamland of his own and is slightly crazy. if he's making you uncomfortable maybe you shouldn't be living with him. it sounds like you trust the other male friend guy more, but you should really trust the person you live with. if you can't talk to him i would think about moving out.