The guy who likes my sister also likes me?

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So like I liked this guy since sixth grade and now it's been like three years and he says he likes me. But we're keeping this a secret from my sister. That's because he likes her too. Does it mean anything that lately he hasn't tried to make a move on her (I mean it's not like she'll go make out with him like he always tries to do anyway). Does that mean that he likes me more?

Update:

and don't tell me that I'm too young cuz that just gets me p.o.ed

fwhiteside · Accepted Answer

Many of the answers that are already posted are very good ones to help you make a valid decision about this young man.  And I truly do believe you should read all of them and make your own decision as to what will be your course of actions to take.  

I also feel that it is in your very best interest to go to your sister and discuss the pros and cons of it all with her.  She has been talking with the young man on an entirely different level than you are.  He may have tried some moves on her that you are not aware of yet.  She may have also seen or heard things about him that you are not aware of yet.  What she may reveal to you may cause you to act the same way towards him that she does.  Always remember most women and men do not let go of or throw away something of value.  

It seems to me that the two of you are under attack by a very sly young man.  By all means go and talk with your sister, because she most definitely will give you insights into him that you never thought of.  Also, no other individual that is not a member of your immediate family should have the power to come between the trust and happiness of you and your sister.  If your sister has always been someone that you could trust and learn from in the past.  Then she is still that same person today.  

By all means find true love, but at the same time use all the tools in your arsenal to protect yourself and your family.

Mrs. Cullen Black [{♥}] · Answer

Your not young, A real good sister would not go out with a guy that likes you and your sister. Later on he might try to play the bothof you. By play I mean date you both at the same time without  you and your sis finding out. So be careful girl.

flickadreamergirl2007 · Answer

it doesn't mean that he likes u more just b/c he hasn't made a move on ur sister it can be that he waiting for the right time to make a move on ur sister or even on u or he could be trying to decided wich sister he should date i think u should give the guy time to figure out who he wants

Anonymous · Answer

if he like you and  your sister he need to pick between one of you and you MUST tell your sis that he likes you to DONT keep it a secret

Danny_Boy · Answer

its kind of messed up

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