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Guys- What do you look for when seeking a wife?

Okay really, list a many things you can think of. Be serious, what do you look for when you are looking for "the one" as opposed to just dating around?

Thanks guys- we'd love to know

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Only that she worships me like the God that I am.

  • 1 decade ago

    Someone who will love me and put up with my crap! Its not as easy as it sounds!

  • 1 decade ago

    Honesty - Tell me how you really feel

    Integrity & Loyal - Respect the relationship

    Feminine - I just like girly-girls

    Open to experimenting in bed - If you're my one partner then..

    Enjoy Life - Able to laugh till it hurts

    Silly - Once a year believe in Santa!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    i look for the personality the genes , hormones, beauty

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  • what her mother is like (cuz she will be like her later)

    how she looks (a guy should never marry a girl he cant easily have sex with)(big butt)

    similar religious/political beliefs (or else you will kill each other)

    similar interests/hobbies (so you can enjoy time together)

    hilarious (so it isn't just you making her laugh)

    is as willing to sacrifice for you as you are for her

    Respect (if she wont give it now, she probably never will)

    understanding of the struggles of being a man (lust, pride, being an idiot, ect)

    HONESTY(the only currency of love)

  • 1 decade ago

    Honestly, I look for a woman that can be both, in a romantic relationship, and be my best friend.

    They say the best relationships (and longest lasting ones) start with the two people being friends. The biggest problem I have here is that 99% of the woman I've made friends with, will not even consider taking a guy friend and taking it into a romantic relationship.

    I've gotten to the point that I've given up looking for a woman to be in a relationhship with. It'll happen when it happens, and not befor.

    As to what I'm looking for beyond being a friend and everything that comes with that, I want the person to be considerate, and affectionate. Can't think of anything else that's really important right off the top of my head. I do want to have kids at some point, so that's a little important too...

  • 1 decade ago

    wait.. before i start everyone is different im surprised by how guys like any type of girl theres someone out there for everyone.. even when the other day my friend laughed at friend for going out with this really fat chick. Apparently research shows that, if they like there parent they will usually find a partner like there parent, for example i like my mum (not like love for a gf) but she is a great mum, i would look for someone similar for her, but not the same.

    what i like.

    *1. You must genuinely like me

    *Cute face (anyone can have a good body, but a cute face means a lot to me).. nice smile..

    *Blonde or brown hair

    *Must have nice boobs (not fakies)

    *Personality (im just describing a friend of mine who is like 4 years older then me and married, if she was my age i would have definitely dated her), she is a nice girl, nice smile, happy, enthusiastic (but not over the top), confident, smart, listens to you, is easy to talk to.. because of that she brings out the most out of me, is interested in what you say, has good eye contact, is so realistic (i can relate to her), she realises your faults, because she has them too, she says nice stuff heaps, she has a sense of humour, i can talk to her.. and talk to her about anything and know that she would never make fun of me, she has good morals, basically because she goes to the same church as me, too (but not that important but would be nice). i know she would have problems but it doesnt matter because of what ive seen of her personality, .. shes hot!.. blah blah, i just reckon she is attractive and thats why.

    must have those 4 things, cute face, blonde or brown hair, boobs, nice personality.

    Do you think that list is long you should have seen my list the other day when someone asked this.. i think ive shortened it.

    but thats just me.

    take it easy

    ps. turn offs include; flirt with everyone, up themselves, unapproachable, too young, too old, drugs, drinking, smoking, overweight, skinny.. just the usual.. dont worry about this answer just try to do your best to improve yourself, by looking after yourself regular hygeine, get a job, be friendly, keep fit blah blah blah.. you cant turn yourself inside out for me and you shouldnt all you should do is do your best to try to be your best and be confident *important*

  • 1 decade ago

    good personility, sweet, nice,hot,sexy

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    nice,cute, would be a good mom to children,good cook,someone who will not keep secrets from me

    but everyone is different

    dont worry youll find someone

  • 1 decade ago

    I didnt realize how pretty my wife was until we got back to my place after we first met. I really dug that she's smart and didnt want to stop talking to her, i liked that she was confident to approach me. I like that even though she knows shes smarter than me she lets me think Im the smart one. I love how she is our a great mom and sex goddess in the bedroom. i dig her. I am goint to open up some more songs for her on guitar hero III and help her band.

  • 1 decade ago

    1. Know she loves me, then,

    FAITHFUL

    Good with kids

    Clean (takes care of herself/house)

    Nice(at least not rude)

    Attentive

    That's most of the important stuff I think...

    I'd rather have a "pretty" wife than a "hot" one, not because of jealousy or anything, but I like "pretty" girls more. Good cook, would be a big plus also.

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