This Is For All The Married Men. Are You Telling A Lie Or Is It Just Me.?

i wouldn't feel loved. he lacks empathy and respect for u. a real man cares about how his wife feels. the most important thing to him is her knowing he is there for her. i have sat and listened to my wife discuss makeup, gossip, and put me thru the "what do think" until i felt my privates disappear. i have to laugh b/c she has so many women she could discuss stuff with but she wants me to listen. i wouldn't trade her for the world!!! u need to get serious about him talking to you...something is wrong ... is he sad??? or visit family for awhile.

On the good side he could be stressed out at his job, do you know if he is unhappy at work? people can turn their emotions inwards when they are depressed. But on the bad side, if this isn't the case, it doesn't sound good. Try talking to him, ask him whats up. The only trouble is he has lied to you so much in the past that a lot of trust has gone. All you can do is try to communicate with him, but if he is not willing then you have to ask yourself do you want to continue being married to someone who is not a true husband. A marriage does not work without trust and communication. It also could be a possibility that he is cheating, but don't have that as a definite until you have spoken to him. good luck and think of number one..you!

seems he's a voiding you and something. but there is astill a bit of concern for the relationship.

talk to him and at this point and so close to the marriage, dont thnk there's anything to avoid.

try to talk to him and solve th eproblem an dif not best to delay the marriage.

good luck.

Please love yourself,do not let no-one put you down

Well it sounds like he needs a wake-up call and a job, but the wake-up call should work. Go through with devorce papers, if he really loves you then you will find that out really fast then get some marrage help, but if he calls your bluff then you had better really devorce him cause he dose not love you anyway. Yes I am a guy. and he needs a wake up call.

A lot of sleep if there is no pathology, could be an indication of depression. Is he depressed ?

Sadly, routine and every day mundane activities, ultimately lead to boredom and ennui. He is taking you for granted as it usually happens after a few months of "bliss".

sometimes you don;t know what you have till it is gone. Only he really knows if he loves you. Tell him straight up that if this sh*t don't change you are gone. Girl you don't need this. Sit him down and explain how you feel. Tell him you want an honest answer as to why he is ignoring you soo much and that you deserve to be treated right. Tell him you want one damn good reason why you should not walk out that door! and if he cannot give you one. Leave. Hopefully he will open up to you as to why he is acting this way...if not move on. There is no sense in letting things stay as they are right now. If all he does is make you cry then I do not see this as a good relationship anyways. People who lie suck!

hmmm did something happen between you two??? an argument of some kind??? I would say leave the house for a bit. maybe for a couple of weeks. If he really doesnt care once you leave then make your desicion, but if he comes looking for you then try and work things out and explain how you feel. maybe you guys need counseling??? that might help in getting thru to him..good luck.

May be you are at fault, wives normally disturb accusing the husband and this leads to ignoring. Talk to him about his problems.

really just by this no one can correctly tell you if he does or does not. I would say that times are obviously rough at the time but perhaps there is something that you are missing. Before you make an decisions make him listen to you, don't allow him to not talk to you. At some point you have to learn how to communicate efficiently and sometimes getting there you have to be loud and appear angry.