do all guys do this.....?

grrrrll what the heck.

if you're in a relationship with a guy

and he's talking about other females

to your face than honey something is wrong.

That is completely disrespectful because

it just shows how unfocused he is on you.

I bet if you do the same thing to him, he'll

get so angry and probably give you a response

like " what the hell, if you talking thisway about this guy then why aren't you with him"..

think about it girl..

i did it one time. she started it by talking about her ex and who she thought was cute besides me. i said that i thought her friend was cute. she overreacted and broke up with me.

i dont do that so no, not all guys talk about that

Yes we do talk about how pretty other ladies are but u ladies do it us men by talking about how cute or sexy other guys are.

He's just being honest. Remember in the end who's got his heart in a bind :P. Girls tend to over think things and that can lead to disaster. If he comments on other girls then means he's very open towards you, I think he's also saying "I trust and love you enough to let you know this.", it's odd I know but what he's telling you is usually reserved as "guy stuff" so go with it.

Maybe he is just seeing what your reaction will be. Maybe he's trying to see if you're a jealous type. Guys can think other girls are attractive without having feelings for them. Don't let it bother you.

ALL guys do it.

Women invest a lot of effort into a baby...growing the thing inside of her. Its in her best interest biologically and reproductively to find a man who will think of her and (hopefully) take an interest in their offspring. Women seek monogamy and are offended by non-monogamous thinking.

Men invest little energy in a baby--3-15 minutes, and then the woman has to do the rest. A man loses as many sperm in an orgasm as a woman eggs for her entire life--in a biological sense, sperm are cheap. In a biological and evolutionary sense, monogamy is NOT a good strategy for men. A man's eyes wander, not because of disrespect or rudeness, but because of his hormones and biology.

It takes some time and effort to learn to overrule these biological imperatives.

So...don't be offended. Its no different than a cat kneading when he is with you...its controlled entirely by biology and no harm is meant.

i have dated guys who have done this and guys who havent. its kinda rude to me but i dont get mad when my bf does that i just say hmmmm wow that guy is so hot to. just act like u dont care. but ive dated 4 guy seriously and all of them acted like that expect one. and i guess it depends on the guys age. my bf does that but as long as he doesnt do it nasty like sayin wow look at her blah blah he goes as far as saying hmm that girl is cute. thats it

Actually, guys do this to me too! I don't know what their problem is!

No, most guys wont rudely do it. We will notice when another girl is hot. We may even tell you that we find certain girls hot. But we don't rub it in your face or constantly bring it up like we're scouting out the next best thing. It's usually in passing or when it's relevent to the conversation. Same way you girls tell us when you think a guy or movie star is really hot. If you feel he's being disrespectful, then he probably is. Find a new guy, it shoudn't be too hard to find one that doesn't do that.