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Is it over yet?
I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and since we've started dating weve had many ups and downs in our relationship. we broke up for about a month before but we got back together because we love eachother and we forgave eachother for everything but we seem to be having some problems again. he gets really frustrated when i want to talk about any problems or situations in the past or on my mind so ive been trying to be more positive and not paranoid so hopefully things can go back to normal.It seems like he never wants to stay on the phone for more than 10 minutes when there were times at the beginning when we'd talk for hours on end. hes also not a very good lsitener anymore and sparts are no longer flying.i have a hard time getting him to understand how the differences in our relationship hurt me, he thinks im just being dramatic and theres no issue.ive tried to explain how i feel about everything and hes assures me he doesnt want to breakup.i love him so muchbut is it fixable?
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- Brutal HonestyLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
"Love doesn't matter, its HOW we love that means the world"
You see that quote up there? Its mine, yea not all that eye opening are anything, but for a relationship it is it's reality. He loves you, no doubt. The problem thou is that your ability to commicate what you NEED from him, how you need him to love you, has hit a brink wall. He doesn't what to talk about it. This could also because he's already pretty satisfied by the way you love him, and thats all that matters. Chances are thou, he doesn't know any better, he has his own ideals about what it means to love someone, and you being.... neglected by them. So you need to re-open that dilogue with this fool, and let him know, that you need him to know better HOW to love you, and if all he does is act like a jerk and brink-wall you with that, you have NO CHOICE but to leave him. You need what you need. So please, for all thats love, talk to him about the truth of the problem, that you NEED him to love you a certain way, the way he use to, neglecting that, you'll have to leave. Let him know, it isn't choice, but a matter of your emotional survival. Becuase the answer, right now to
Is it over yet?
Its been over, the "relate"(tionship) has ended....... but you can bring it back, talk to him.....