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Husband neglects wife and kids but just provides for what they need. Calls his wife a b*tch but doesn't support her needs - emotional, physical, spiritual, psychological - entire marital needs. Screams and yells at kids when they ask him for $1 to get themselves candy yet he spends more than $xxx on his body building requirements and supplements. Back stabs his wife telling all his friends she's having an affair and when her friends confront him, he tells them she's having delusions about his philandering. What would you do if your husband was like this?

heartsarebad · Accepted Answer

I think she chose him as a husband for other reasons other than being a good husband and father.
You are attracted to bad boys. There is some give and take . You get the good looking guy with the charm, but they are jerks.

Tonya · Answer

Does he take steroids by chance? You mentioned body building and supplements. They can have a negative effect on your mood. Aside from that though, you should definitely seek marriage/family counseling.

Jane Marple · Answer

I would of divorced him a long time ago. 

Note: you have to change your way of thinking. ONLY YOU can make yourself happy then when that is reached you can share your own happiness with someone. Don`t expect a man ever to make you happy or to fulfill any spiritual, psychological, emotional needs.

ღStarzzღ · Answer

No one deserves to be treated that way! Why are you still with him if he yells and screams at your kids? One word leave. I would NEVER put up wuth that besides my kids come first.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd give him 5 seconds to haul his *** out that door or I will kill him.

raininonsunday · Answer

Kick him square in the nuts!!

sweetpea5499 · Answer

I'd kick him in the empty space between his legs!!!  Then leave his sorry ***!!!

Anonymous · Answer

run, don't walk, to the exit door - dragging the kids behind you, of course

Needtoknow · Answer

One word LEAVE!

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