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mixed signals?

So i'm a college student, and i met this guy a couple days before christmas break ( when i flew back home for a month) anyways when I met him we kissed and i really felt sparks fly and he even said it was weird because " he felt like he knew me" when we had only known each other a day. Well i really like this guy because as far as i know i feel very comfortable around him. However, he has been sending me mixed signals. he will say stuff like how he should give up woman for a new years resolution then when i confront him about he says he shouldn't like someone but he does. He talks about how he misses me... then turns around and will casually say how we should stay friends, and when i reply " what did you say?" he says.. " oh nevermind forget what i said." i don't know himvery well yet so i can't say, but am i wasting my time? i like him. and i'm sure he likes me... but i'm not sure if he is the type of guy who will commit to a relationship

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  • 1 decade ago
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    i don,t think he is sending mixed signals. i think he is a

    player who has no interest in a relationship.

    you sound like a nice girl, find a nice guy. i know you will.

  • 1 decade ago

    He doesn't sound it - he sounds like he thinks he might have said too much and is backing off. Keep in touch with him but look around. You don't need a committed relationship in college anyway. Plenty of time for that.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It doesn't sound like he'd be very dependable in a relationship. Or the relationship wouldn't last.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think he's just confused.

    Maybe he's been in a bad relationship already and doesn't want to get hurt, or is afraid to.

    well good luck ;]

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  • 1 decade ago

    This guy sounds like a woman.

    Do you want a boyfriend? or a girlfriend?

  • 1 decade ago

    sounds like he needs to get his head sorted. maybe hes a bit of a "player" and is starting to feel guilty about it. i would ask him what he wants and tell him what you want

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ask him outright, how do you feel about me?

    you will know from his awnser whether he really likes you or not.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well he probably gets nervous but tell him how you feel and ask him if he wants a relationship with you.

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    1 decade ago

    Sounds like he just wants booty.

  • he actin like a kid

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