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Kissing Kissing Kissing?

Why? Why do ppl presure me 2 kiss my boyfriend? it bugs me cuz yeahh its gunna be my first kiss but idk why they care, but yeahhh should i make a move or just let it happen?

Update:

hes a yr and half younger its been about a month and a half that weve been together, im 16 im goin 2 his house for the first time in about 20 min >.< and im not shurrrrrr

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I'd say ignore the pressure from everyone and wait until you are ready. If you do not feel the desire to kiss your bf, then don't do it. Do not let the peer pressure of your friends push you into doing something you do not want to do. When you get a little older, you will feel more comfortable about it. Don't rush it, you have your whole life ahead of you.

  • 5 years ago

    I was 12 dating a 11 year. I was upset coz I just broke up with my other boyfriend. So me and my boyfriend went on the backtrack to talk a bit. He looked so cute. I kissed his cheek and he kissed mine. Then leaned in for a kiss on the lips. The next day he broke up with me because his friend's couldn't hang out with me so his FRIENDS told him to break up with me. Now the boy I'm dating now bas been a month when he asked me out. I want him to kiss me but I don't think he wants to kiss me. God he is so sexy and I am ready for that kiss. How can I get him to kiss me??????

  • 1 decade ago

    Holy cow you sound like me at 15 years old. Thats when I had my first kiss. All of my friends and some of his friends gave me a really hard time about kiss the guy. It can be really embarassing...

    Just don't do anything you're not ready for. Your first kiss is something you'll always remember and you shouldn't do it just because they want you to.

    Also, just remember that you're with your boyfriend because you like him and that means something and sometimes you just have to take a risk... I think you should just swallow a mint, go for it. If you just wait for it to happen the time might not ever come. Take charge of your life and kiss him when your ready. Plus guys really like it when the girl takes charge. Surprise him with a big kiss!!!

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    5 years ago

    Now there's an offer i cant refuse, lots more kisses than you have put on here. Pucker up hun its gonna be a long night lol xx

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    since it's your first kiss you should just let t happen. dont give in peer pressure because it will turn into more than kissing eventually. i am 15 and im still a virgin unlike the majority of my friends and im proud of it. but your first kiss is always the best one and just take your time and do it when your ready not when you feel pressured

  • 1 decade ago

    Got to love it just go with the flow if it happens it happens no need to rush anything. I bet half the people who are pressuring you havent done it yet. People tend to act all big and bad when they are in the same boat as you. Just go with the flow and let it happen itself. The more you think about it the more likey it wont happen.

  • 1 decade ago

    If it feels like it's something that you want to do go for it and if you can't get him to kiss you, ask him if you can kiss him, he won't say no(but do a french kiss, that kills the experience of a memorable kiss, it just makes it gross, it's ok for later though) But if you feel like you're not ready, don't do it, just him take his time and let him do it for you. Don't rush into something your afraid of, because you'll feel weird later and it won't be meaningfull.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well dont just start kissing him outta no where and being that hes ur bf u gonna have to kiss him one day or another but trust me u dont have to do anything cuz if ur going to his house, itz just gonna happen so wait for him to make the first move so good luck and enjoy! kissing is awesome ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    i got a gf and we haven't kissed yet. It depends on if you really want to or not. Of course i would want to kiss my gf, but if she doesn't want to than that is her choice to make and i shouldn't make her try to do something against her will. But maybe u would feel more comfortable if it wasn't around anyone else, just u and him. Hope i could help and just remember, think about what you really want to do first.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't listen to them. Your first kiss has to be special, not forced. Let it happen on your own. It's way more romantic and memorable. There'll be a moment and when it's right you both will go for it.

    Source(s): My own experience!
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