Should he continue to have close relationship with ex-wifes family, even though he is remarried?

This man is so disrespectful to his 2nd wife that I would not be surprised if she eventually tells her husband to kiss her azzzz.... I am sorry but her husband is way out of line here and she needs to take him into some marriage counseling and find out why he married her when he hasn't let go of his 1st wife. The second wife should never be put in a place like that and her husband ever believe that she could be comfortable with that. The husband needs to move on with the second wife and forget the ex's family and her or get out of the relationship ....and away from all this stress. Bless her heart.

It is completely fine for you not to want to participate. (I'm assuming you're the wife.)

I don't think there's a problem with the husband carrying on a friendship with the ex's family, seeing as he knew them for quite awhile, they are practically family for him, and he's very open about it with you.

As long as your husband has no problem with you being in the same room with him (as long as you're not unduly distracting him) while he talks on the phone, the sexy lady voice is strictly the in-law's problem.

He can say he'd like to take you to the ex-in-laws for vacation, but you can shoot that idea down because you don't feel comfortable with it, it'd be an awful vacation for you, and you want some time alone with him, and he'd better respect that.

Same goes with bringing them into your home, if you're uncomfortable enough, at any point whatsoever. As an alternative to that one, you could host some of your relatives that he hardly knows (or doesn't like) and he gets to put up with it. Or some other kind of consideration. But basically there is no reason they need to come over.

The 4/5 year old had nothing to do with the situation, and you should take that into account, it's not completely unreasonable for him/her to stop by, but you get to set reasonable limits on how often and your husband should respect whatever you choose, and again you get a little consideration in return.

wager what? you're the two being turds. This adverse guy has truthfully no thought his spouse is bonking you and it incredibly is not easy to have him run around being blissfully blind to this actuality. for this reason some human beings shouldn't get married. they do no longer look to be mature sufficient to shelter a committed monogamous courting. I advise yeah open marriage blabla yet it incredibly is no longer that scenario. it incredibly is a scenario the place the two one in all you're creeping around like sneaky ratfinks and having her act like each and everything is hunky dory together with her husband. mendacity in my opinion is between the worst issues you're able to do to somebody you supposedly love. It additionally purely makes you seem as though a foul untrustworthy person standard. If she isn't happy together with her guy she needs to lady up and renowned it. She needs to be like, honey, i choose to screw my ex. i'm nonetheless warm for him. is this cool? whether he's an asshole she could purely divorce. it incredibly is a good distance much less of a sneaky ratfink area of do. She ought to be like hey honey i think of you're an asshole, subsequently i'm divorcing you so i can bypass have intercourse with my ex. See? each and everything is a lot easier whilst each and every person is easy and in enhance approximately each and everything.

That is creepy to keep in touch with the ex MIL like that.

The hubby needs to let go of the ex's family.

The wife needs smack him upside the head in the hopes that it will knock some sense into him.

Inappropriate.