Why is he like this?

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Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year and 4 months. I know he loves me and I love him. He's 20 and I'm 19 so it's not an immature "i think i know what love is, but i really don't" kind of situation. Here lately I feel like he's taking me for granted. He get's aggravated and just yells at me and when I cry he gets even more pissed off because Im crying. Well today after i got off of work we were supposed do hang out just he and I. Well I call him when i get off of work and he tells me he's at his friends house and will be there for most of the day because he's tyring to work on his truck today so that we can do something tomorrow. Tonight comes and we're planning on hanging out and while we're hanging out he calls his friend (that he's been aroudn ALL DAY) and talks to him. Then tells asks me if we can do something else. Why can't he just see that I want him to ACT like he WANTS to spend time with me it makes me feel like he doesn't care about me! (taken for granted)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

How do you know he loves you ? just because he says it doesnt mean he means it. Its just a word. Actions are what tells you he means it and his actions dont add up. He could just want a break from 'just hanging' and need to do something constructive. But it could also mean he is bored. Get out more. If hes hanging with his mates, then find something else to do while hes doing it. Dont let yourself be taken for granted. Be busy sometimes when he wants you to do something. Dont always be available, or jump when he asks.

thunderstruck · Answer

if you havent told him, tell him how your feeling. he may listen and he may not, that tells you a little more about his personality.         in my opinion...

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