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Here comes the part where i spill my guts! WHY DOES HE TAKE ME FOR GRANTED?!?
My boyfriend and i have been together for a while and here lately i feel like he wouldn't care if I left him. I talked about this with him last night and he said that he would DEFINITELY care. Sometimes actions speak louder than words and I told him that.
Well today we wre supposed to hang out but he blew me off to hang out with his friends. ( i didn't mind sometimes a guy just needs friend time) But what i did mind was when we were together tonight he would call or his friend would text (it's the same friend he hung out with today) It made me feel like he would rather be with his friend than with me! Well since he blew me off today we were going to do what we had planned tomorrow... he get off the phone with his friend and asks me if we can hang out later that day and do something else THAT INVOLVES HIS FRIEND...WHY CAN'T IT JUST BE HE AND I ANYMORE?!
i love his friends but i just want to be with my boyfriend ALONE sometimes.
what do i do with this?!
5 Answers
- GottaloveherLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
You are starting to bore him. Yes he cares about you but his friend is much more fun. So, my advise to is to take an interest in something fast...you know a hobby or something....an activity...Do something like learn something new. Get busy with your own life and don't be so clingy and dependent on him. Guys like women with confidence (it's sexy) and an independent woman is the most confident. Now, go out and find that new interest girl.
- 1 decade ago
Blowing you off is not a good sign. When a guy really cares for a girl he doesn't just blow her off. Assuming you have told him how you feel about spending most of his time with his friends, if he is still doing it, it sounds like he doesn't respect your feelings much and why are you putting up with that? Obviously, talking to him is not getting through, so try ignoring him for a while and hang out with your friends all the time. Sometimes when you turn the tables on them, they start listening. Other than that, just tell him to stop or he can hang out with them indefinately. Don't ever let a guy disrespect you like that, you are setting yourself up for more disappointment with him if you let him get away with just blowing you off. You need to know you are important to him and if he refuses to let you know that by HIS ACTIONS then what choice is there really to make? Unless you are willing to put up with it, or he all of a sudden changes his behavior, you may have to show him by YOUR ACTIONS that you mean business and won't put up with it. :)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Be honest with him. Just tell him you want him to show interest in you, and if he doesn't, cut him loose.
- 1 decade ago
he still cares about u dont worry about that, u need to spice up romance alittle more
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