Why do I have so much trouble with getting a girl ?

First you need to throw out the physical description and socio-economic status, women don't look at that. Don't believe the false notion that women seek men for their looks and money, not true. Your problem is in your conversational skill and technique. Convo skill and technique is the smoking gun in landing ANY woman, it is the sacred key. Consider this too..... the two main traits that attract a woman to a man are, in strict order: 1. sense of humor and 2. confidence. This has been shown in endless psychological studies on female behavior in regards to interpersonal attraction. So perhaps you are having trouble in your sense of humor department or your confidence one as well.... maybe both. If you think you don't, then it has to be in your conversational material. Talking about the wrong things will turn women off, not matter what you look like or what you have done. Ever see stunning women holding hands with an over-weight underachiever? There you go, the guy knows how to talk the talk and charm his way into her pants (and her mind). Oh yes, you keep falling into the Friends Zone because you are not familiar with the laws of attraction... that is why they only see you as friendship material. This is a bad question to ask women on here... you will only get answers like "Oh just wait for her to come to you" or even worse, "just be yourself." That is the worst piece of advice in the history of the Universe... why? Because I bet it has never worked for you. Am I right or am I right? All you need is some adjustments in your behavior around women and you'll be set! Let me know if you have any questions, I'd be happy to help! Best wishes!

In the early phases of relationships, it's important to spend as much time together as possible. Travel probably inhibits that. You need to get to know each other before you start relying on phone call conversations, which could become awkward if you're not quite "there" yet.

from what u said so far i see no reason why you would have trouble "getting a girl"......but you do seem a bit average..

no offence or anything...=)