If your boyfriend cheats on you??

If your man cheated then blamed it on you its because he is a coward who cant fess up to his own mistakes therefore he blames you so you will feel guilty and forgive him, he then looks like the victim. Dont let him blame you for it because nothing short of putting a gun to his head is a reason for him to cheat. If he wasnt happy he should have ended your relationship. Please for you sake dump the cheater. Listen to the song "Before he cheats" by Carrie Underwood because that says it all. Put him in his place as soon as he does it and maybe next time he'll think twice before side steppin.

DUMP HIM! It's one thing to cheat and then apologize or not say anything (which still constitutes dumping him). But for him to blame you?!? What an a s s!!!! Never let a guy blame you for his sh*tty behavior! You deserve sooooooooooo so so much better than that bullsh*t. Get rid of the cheater. If you gave him a second chance, not only would he have the upper hand/control of you (b/c you LET him blame you for it), but he will know that he can do it all he wants and you'll still be there (even if you yourself know you wouldn't put up with that, that won't stop him from trying!).

Cheaters never propser!!!

When he suddenly has things to do that he never had to do before...when he avoids your calls, or isn't there to take them, if his attitude toward you is changing, if he tells you he "just needs some ME time" If you live together some of these are signs too... 1. Lower desire to be with you sexually. 2. Suddenly tries new sexual positions. 3. Working late more often. 4. Mysterious phone calls. 5. Gets angry when you look at the cell phone, pager, or computer. Is secretive of such. 6. Smell of perfume on their clothing. 7. Takes a shower as soon as he comes home. 8. You find hairs or other objects on his body or in his possessions. 9. Starts taking more care with his appearance. 10. Accuses you of cheating. 11. He changes his normal routine without cause or reason.

HECK NO! it's not ur fault it his own..if he was a man he could have told u that he jus was not in to you or the relationship was not working for him..then went after the other woman..there is no reason to cheat at all..i hate that kind of BS a guy tries to pull to seem inoccent...and make you fell like you done something wrong..ditch him!

I don't what i would have to do with my bf cheating on me. My bf doesn't see the point of cheating if you're unhappy with your current partner... if he was unhappy with me (not just upset over a little fight but like doesn't feel anything for me anymore) then he would just break up with me.. if he didn't feel like our relationship would progress and flourish then what is the point of being with someone that's just there? Cheating is a choice... people that cheat like to blame it on their significant other but in reality it's just them being selfish and stupid

WHOA!!! WHOA!!! WHOA!!! for all of you telling her to dump him how do you know its totally his fault? maybe they have an open line of communication and they talk openly about sex he told her that she was not doing enough & she said she would try to do more but never did...he tells her over and over but with no change. What do you expect? he cheats and blames it on her for not taking care of home when asked numerous times to do so. That is your answer right there, she was not taking care of him sexually and therefore he went elsewhere where he was appreciated.

My own experience:

One night I got a text from my boyfriend (now EX) saying we should just be friends. Then I find out....

he picked up my best friend, in his car, at MIDNIGHT, and they hung out in his room. I found out from HER! He wasn't going to tell me because it wasn't a big deal, and he didn't think it was too important.

My "best friend" had convinced him to break up with me and go out with her! I don't know who I felt more betrayed by.

Then of course, a couple months later, he starts feeling lonely and his "conscience" kicked in and he was just oh so sorry.

He blamed all of this on me of course.

If your boyfriend did this to you, do NOT go back with him! Absolutely do NOT!

it depends do you love him enough to forgive and not let go

or if you do not love him-see ya there was no love lost !

no such thing as the other persons fault they did what they wanted to do -you are in controll of your own body>no one holding a gun to make a person cheat -they cheated because they wanted to - so you forgive or you dump .

soo ur b/f is blaming u for cheatin on u???? either he's mental or he wants u to be the blame of all his mistakes! excuse me for saying this but ur b/f sounds obnoxious and corny dump him and make him feel bad bout it

If he cheats, he's gone.