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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Am i a bad friend/person?

This girl anna, she was my friend and then my other friends that iam really close to started to hate her. Then i lied and blamed it on anna, and now they hate her and she sits alone at lunch? Am i a bad friend / person?

Update:

they also made up HAC

(hate anna club)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    i think you panicked and didnt know what you were doing. this person is your friend right? well who cares if everyone else hates her you dont and i think its up to you to fix things if you really want to be friends with her

    PS if your other friends hate you too just because you are friends with someone they dont like means that they are not real friends at all

  • Marina
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    You have done something very damaging. If you want to repair the damage, tell your other friends that you lied and Anna didn't do whatever it was. Then sit with Anna at lunch. This is the cruelest thing, I don't know how anyone survives middle school.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    the fact that ur filled with guilt tells u that ur not. i think everyone says stuff like that sometimes (it doesnt make it right though) and i know girls were it is ALL they do. it is a mean thing to say but ur not anywhere close to being a bad person (unless u still do it hten i would question urself if ur not a "nice" person but not a bad parson), if u cant let it go then come forward to ur friend but address it in a way that doesn't make her upset, say ur sorry that ive been mean in the past it makes me feel terrible and i cant get over it, u dont necessarily have to tell her what u said. hope this helps :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, you are the worst kind of friend. Go sit with Anna next week and tell her you are sorry. I don't know how you can even sleep at night. Put yourself in Anna's place. How would you feel?

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  • 1 decade ago

    Yes I am not trying to be mean but why would you blame your friend "anna" So you are a bad friend

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like you all did Anna a favor. Now she can go out and find real friends and you and your superficial backstabbing friends will canabilize each other over time. Ask yourself if you all could sit around and talk about Anna behind her back what are they saying about you when you aren't around. Don't fool yourself, they are talking about you just as you talk about them. Anna will be fine. Like I said she'll be better off finding real friends who respect her.

  • 1 decade ago

    your not a bad person all together

    but you did do the wrong thing

    invite her 2 sit with u 1 day

    or u can sit with her if ur "friends" don't want 2 sit next 2 her

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well all you can really do is say Sorry and then if that does not work just try to not make up lies and tell everybody that you lied and she will like you again.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    everyone need friends. You need to apologize to Anna. What did she do that was worth ruining her life?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    not exactly, but u shouldnt blame it on anna... say sry and speak the truth. ur close frens should understand rite?

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