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why do nice guys always get screwed over?

im not saying im a nice guy but every lady i have dated tells me i am. Now im not pushy or a coward or anything to that extent. Is it because im poor? there has to be some rational explanation. And a second part to this is why do women complain they can never find nice men when the nice guys sick of the BS and start being jerks because of the way the women have treated them

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Yeah, I sort of agree. The world is unfair, and not everyone plays by the best set of rules. You know what I mean?

    Keep doing what you're doing, which is treating people well and doing good things. As it is, the system allows you to suffer when you shouldn't. Don't let that discourage you from acting rightly. Where ever you go, people will meet you and appreciate your strong character.

    Source(s): Student of ethics and other philosophy.
  • 1 decade ago

    I'm right there with you. I think it is women need something to freak-out about or it is boring to them. They start looking for the nice guys after 40 and they usually have a few kids by the "jerks" by then.

  • 5 years ago

    Because when we are young, we are idiots. I've been there. Trust me. Young ladies do not know what they want. It's all about sex and the alpha male complex. Hang in there. You'll find some girl that's WORTHY of a nice guy. If the girls can't see that you are nice, then they just aren't.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You need money to get women bro, sorry to say that is why nice guys finish last because they usually are poor and you need some green to get anyones respect especially females

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  • 1 decade ago

    Hang in there bud, someone better will come along, I promise.

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