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we had similar dreams....?

last night i dreamt that i was cheating on my boyfriend. i would hide from him as i would be cheating. he had a similar dream. he says that i was cheating on him but when i was caught i would hide from him. does this mean anything?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You may be hiding something from your boyfriend or doing something and not letting him know about it. It may not be bad what you are doing or the secret, but you and your boyfriend both pick up on that something or some part of your life, or what you are doing is not being shared with him. It may even be a secret from the past, that keeps the relationship from having as strong a connection as it could. Meditate, pray, exercise, and eat healthy, so you will have the spiritual strength to share more of yourself in your relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    The fact that the two of you had the same dream (that is if both of you are telling the truth) means that there is a strong spiritual connection between the two of you. He sensed that there is something that you are hiding or keeping from him. He went to search for the answer and when he confronts you about it, you try to keep it hidden.

    The fact that you are "cheating" doesn't necessarily mean that you are in a physical or sexual way. It may simply mean that whatever you are keeping from him, in your opinion, may hurt the relationship or cause great tension. You might be hidding something from your past, present, or future. The fact that you are hiding from him means that you are either scared of the outcome if he finds out, or you are ashamed of what it is.

    It is better to be open and honest with each other than to find out the truth from other sources. If you do have the urge to "cheat", try to eliminate the source of it. Most people cheat because there is something missing from their current relationship. There are also other reasons as well, such as the excitement or rush of it, depression, low self-worth, and so on.

  • 1 decade ago

    Seems you two have trust issues. The real question is, do you feel bad about the cheating, or is it exciting? When you figure that out, then you can hash out why your boyfriend is questioning your loyality.

    Another thing to think about is why, in his dream, are you hiding after discovery? Does he have a violent streak or is it that he feels you couldn't bear to face him under such circumstances?

  • Of course it means something! You guys are very much in synch. You may have been picking up on his fearful dream of your infidelity. I had a boyfriend and we once shared a dream even though he was away about 2,000 miles. Connections know no distance!

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  • 1 decade ago

    mmm tricky

    i think you should talk about this

    maybe ur boyfriend is a little afraid that u'll cheat on him because of something, maybe he knows of someone who likes u or maybe ur pretty or are always hanging out with boys

    maybe you are both insecure

    i think you should strengthen your relationship, go out more, talk

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe you both feel that you are losing interest in him and want to pursue other interests (other guys).

  • 1 decade ago

    i don't know

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