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How bad is this i suppose its pretty bad what do u think guys?

i met my bf 7 months ago. And yesterday morning we had a huge argument. By late afternoon i was feeling very different most of all very scared & insecure. Two days ago i needed some cash 2 take care of a sudden situation and as much as i didn't want to ask for his help i had no choice. He gladly offered to help me. Im known to be very independent and strong just to give u an idea i usually offer help of this sort 2 people and never had put my self in situtations like this before. Anyhow i thanked him & told him will pay him back in a day or 2. Next day i called him just 2 say hi & he sounded very different i could tell. I have a very stressful job i was stuck in traffic and i sort off snab at him. And the he said 2 me im beging to take him for grananted. i asked him how so? And he is like well yesterday u asked me for money and right now u are talking 2 me & treating me like trash. i just couldn't believe what i heard this is the man i thought i love i could never feel this way about h

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well, you probably owe him an apology for going off on him when it was the stress of your job and traffic that you were mad at. He might have had stress, too, but neither of you took the time to find out what was going on with the other person.

    This is a good learning opportunity for the both of you. You have to be able to talk to each other calmly and rationally about what you said to each other. Communication and understanding are the cornerstones of a good relationship. You're about to find out if you have those with your boyfriend. I hope both of you do.

  • 1 decade ago

    too much drama. give him the borrowed money back and move on. Relationships can't last that way.

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