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middle school love??

theres this guy and he seems really sweet and amazing and his best friend told me he likes me but hes been known as a gay guy so i am worried about what everyone will say and right now in mi middle school yrs my rep is kinda important. oh and my best friend just hooked up with someone not as popular as out... clique and shes gotten alot of crap about it so HELP

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  • 1 decade ago
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    just go out with the guy but keep it on the down loww

    when you have been going out for about a week you can go public about it

    obviously if the guy is going out with you he isn't gay

    plus thats just a rumor that goes around school its probably not true there is the same kind of guy in my middle school and he has a girlfriend and is super nice once you get to know him and seriously your clique will understand because a guy and friends is better than no guy and friends

    good luck =]

  • 1 decade ago

    You Are kidding me right? "my best friend just hooked up with someone not as popular as out... clique and shes gotten alot of crap about it" WHO CARES WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK!!!!!!!!!!! If someone loves you and you love them back then there is no problem. oh and also what is your question? Is it should i give this guy a chance even though people think he is gay? if so go up to him and tell him that his best friend told you that he liked you, now he will either say. he is lying, i do like you. Now if the rumors are true, i think that this would be a moment you copuld look back on. igf you dont mind about who he likes then you can be good friends. If you can only worry about if i date him i will be less popular then really think about what you are thinking.

    ~ sorry if i was mean in any ways, dont take it personally. Good Luck

  • 1 decade ago

    you need to stop worriing about your reputation, if you like a guy go for him. I know how important reputaions are now a days.. but someone will ruin it l8r on no matter what. If you really like him, than stop waiting for the rain to fall, and ask him if he returns the feelings!! ignor what people say about you,, they don't matter in the end of it all. Trust me, i know this from experiance. DON"T ever hold back cuz of what people will say!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    oh wow. Okay, your only in middle school? Yeesh. IM in high school. WHo the hell cares if hes not popular, or everyone thinks hes gay? SO WHAT??? You can secretly date him, or just hang out with him... If your popular, and your only supposed to date the popular hot guys. Who gives a ****? Its not that big of a deal. So suck it up, and make your decision its not that hard dumbass.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Go for it but you GOTTA keep it quiet. That way you keep ur friends (?) and you get your guy,

    and you get to find if he's gay ;-)

    Everyones a winner.

    Go gal go!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    it doesnt matter wat other people think as long as your happy so listen to your heart

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