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How do I win back the love of a woman in my life?

A woman who I was friends with for over a year, and dated for the last 4 months, has decided that my ex is too much a part of my life for us to be together. I want to show her that I want to be with only her. How can I help her realize this? We have an amazing connection on different levels, and I don't want to lose this. I talk to my ex occasionally, and we are friends, but I left her to be with this woman. Should I try to let it go? Should I pursue her? I don't know what to do. How can someones feelings change so fast? 10 days ago everything seemed great.

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  • 7
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    1 decade ago
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    I'd say you may need to make some progress with laying the ghosts of the past to rest first. You were likely injured more badly than you realize in the whole ex-experience. Keep in mind that once you bond with someone they are a part of you. If an end is put to the relationship it simply means that a part of you is gone. Its not about getting over it because it will always be there... its about getting on with life. But, if you are still hurting then you cant be fully there... fully involved... getting on with life ...the way a new partner would want. She isn't gonna want to share you with a ghost. Gotta put the ex behind first.

    Source(s): Experience of 7
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